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Written by
Lehlia Kendrick
From the genealogy files of Frances Rentz Howell
Beckemeyer
Typed by: Jean McCullough and Jean O'Neil [Note: need new email address]
Submitted by Jean McCullough
Petition of Sheldrick Kendrick shows Philip Jones Stark is indebted To him for $300.
1805 Lottery ticket. Sheldrick Kendrick living in Columbia Co., Georgia, Drew 202 A. in Baldwin Co. later Jasper Co.
1802-1813 Dates of marriage and children s birth taken from Family Bible
1811 Jas. L. Burks and Patsy Robinson Married.
1817 Robert Kendrick and Nancy Kendrick administrators of estate of Sheldrick Kendrick. Jas. L. Burks, Agent.
1826 Jas. L. Burks House of Representatives, Jasper Co.
1773 John Burks listed as Captain in Revolutionary War, came from Virginia with wife and five children. Granted 350 A. land on Sherroll s Creek, Wilkes Co., Georgia.
1817 Burwell K. Left will in Morgan Co.
1850 Census
1894 Description of Sheldrick s home given by T.H. Rentz s mother while Aunt Bettie Kendrick was visiting Mrs. H.B. Rentz.
EARLY BOYHOOD IN JASPER
Three children
were sitting on the protruding roots of a grand but knurled old white oak at the
rear of their home. Their faces were alight with perfect happiness for in their
hands they held their most cherished dream come true. Becky, almost twelve, had
her first book, a Bible: Jincey, a fair little maiden of ten was looking rapturously
through her new blue back speller; and Burks, a dark haired blue-eyed boy of eight
was trying to master the mystery of figures and letters on his new slate-with pencil
attached.
After a few minutes Burks jumped up but laid his
slate carefully on a root.
Becky, we'll fix a board in our old hollow tree
here where we ll put our books and slate and not have to draw them up from the bottom
by a string as we do our play things .
Very accommodatingly the old tree had a great knot
and just below that a hollow place about three feet from the ground but hardly large
enough for a child to enter. Burks had tried it once and got caught and the girls
had to call their mother to help pull him out so she gave stern orders not to try
that feat again. It was a great store place, though, for here they could hide their
dearest possessions free from the depredations of the three youngest children. Little
Betty, Sara, and Sheldrick were not yet awakened so the three older children worked
fast for they knew that the minute the little ones were up their chores for the
day would begin.
I know where there are five nails I saved from
an old board, said the thrifty Becky, as she ran to get them. Burks put two boards
down perpendicularly and one across that fitted tightly to the tree, still for better
security he nailed it fast to the ends of the other two boards. His job was done
and each book and slate was deposited in its own little niche. Not too soon, for
Ma called from the back entry. Come, children, and get the little ones ready for
breakfast for your pa s sick with a misery in his side this morning and doesn t
want any noise in the house.
Little Betty was already up and partly dressed
but Becky had to button her up. With Betty s help Sallie too was soon ready to go
to the back entry where Jinsey had dipped some water from a pail with a gourd. She
took the pan from the shelf and set it on the floor of the little girls with her
help to bathe their faces and hands. As they finished, Becky came up with little
Sheldrick in her arms, bathed his face and hands and all marched in to breakfast.
Joe, the slave, came in the kitchen with a turn
of wood, which he put down, beside the hearth. His mistress handed him his breakfast
in a pan and he went out on the back steps to eat it.
Burks was already busily eating for Ma had told
him that Pa would not be able to go to the new ground so he must go with Joe and
drop corn as Joe opened the furrows and covered them up.
The little boy was accustomed to work so he went cheerfully enough as Joe led the horse to the step for him to mount and then the black got up behind the boy.
This was the second of May, 1815. Little more than twelve years before Sheldrick Kendrick and Nancy Burks had been married in Wilkes County. Sheldrick had been left some property by his father Jones, and Nancy was given a cow and a hog; some household articles by her mother. In 1803, they went to Columbia Co. where Sheldrick had been living. Rebecca and Virginia were born there.
In 1805, Sheldrick drew a fortunate lottery ticket
for 202 acres of land in the new county of Baldwin and after much swapping and bartering
he converted his patrimony and some other property into a slave, two good horses,
farm tools, and other necessities. Some of their neighbors and relatives had also
drawn lots in the new Indian cession and joined in the migration to the virgin land.
Trails had already been made to this region so the cavalcade and wagons arrived
without undue hardship.
Nancy and
Sheldrick, as many others did, had only a lean-to next their covered wagon for the
first month. It was beautiful October weather and though there were two babies to
care for, they worked hard and fast and with the aid of the faithful Joe, and their
friends at a log rolling and house raising time, they had completed a one room log
house for a dwelling and another larger one, shaded on either side for their farm
equipment and the left of the barn for Joe.
At the time our story opens, sawmills had been
in operation to some extent. The main house was a double log cabin; each room twenty
feet square connected by a ten-foot hallway, open front and back. On the front side
was a twelve-foot shed running the entire length of the house. The left side was
partitioned off with boards for a room. One door opened into the mother s room and
father s and the other on the porch. This was the girl s room and in here slept
the four little girls in two double beds. A small steep stairway led from the right
side of the door of the parent s room and in the loft above was the room occupied
by Burks.
On the other side of the house was the same size
room as that of the parents with a like stairway opening from the hall and leading
to the loft. Up here was the wayfarer s room, for there were many and none were
ever turned away. This room was also for an overflow of guests especially when the
relatives came. The large room below was the guestroom. In it was a four poster
bed covered with a home woven counterpane with long fringe. There were maybe half
a dozen straight chairs of home manufacture in the room. In one corner was an old
bureau, the precious gift of Nancy s mother who had now passed away. In another
corner was a homemade washstand and on it was a much-cherished bowl and pitcher
and soap dish. This was convenient to the window through which water was thrown
when ablutions were finished. All the windows of the house were wooden shutters
on hinges, which had to be closed in case of rain. Stone chimneys were built at
each end of the house. There were two large fireplaces down stairs and two smaller
ones upstairs. On each side of the chimney in every room was a shutter window. Also
a window in each upstairs room opening into the hallway. Through this window was
Burks favorite mode of reaching his room. It was much nicer to him to climb the
logs than go up the stairway.
The first built log cabin with its stick and dirt
chimney stood in its same place---now in the backyard and about twenty feet from
the main dwelling. Here was the kitchen and dining room, which was partially connected
by a boardwalk.
Nancy and Sheldrick were hardworking; thrifty,
sensible people and their labors had been blessed by their efforts. Much of the
land had been cleared and they had an abundance of corn, wheat, and other food both
for their family and their farm animals, which had greatly multiplied.
Their new venture this year was a fine newly cleared field to be put in corn and several acres near the house were already planted in cotton the first of any consequence they had tried to grow. All was well with them and their home was a happy one with six bright healthy children and the promise of plenty for their maintenance.
Crops were laid by and John had a gang of strong Negroes so
they, with Sheldrick to oversee, began the task of clearing the swampy land. With
axes and hatchets, they cut away the dense underbrush and vines, making piles of
it and burning all that was dry enough.
From all indications the black had lived here for years, eking his living from the streams, trapping wild animals, and possibly raiding some of the neighboring cornfields. It seemed impossible that the Negro could have been here all this time and never have been found. However, his retreat was far to the side of the usual path of the hunters and so had escaped detection.
Sheldrick and his force left everything as they
found it and went back to their work. At noon they got out their baskets of lunch,
fed the new black, and gave him water. He seemed docile and grateful but still spoke
no word.
At night there was great excitement at the house. Word was sent and several of the neighbors had gathered. The Negro was carefully examined. Several scars were found about his body and on the left side of his face and down to his neck. Evidently he had been brutally used but all knowledge of his exact identity was to remain a mystery for the black was deaf and dumb and could never give sufficient light on his former surroundings to make it clear to those investigating his case.
John Burks was a magistrate and as court was held in the district on the next day, the negro was taken to the meeting so that legal proceedings could be made as to his disposal. Sheldrick naturally attended as well as the other men in the neighborhood. It was decided that the negro should be sold, as that was the law of the day, and Sheldrick, being the finder, should have choice of purchase. So for a small sum, Joe, as he was called, was bought by Sheldrick.
Joe must have been about thrifty-five years old at the time though his hair was beginning to turn gray which is very unusual for a negro at that age. He never wished to mix with others of his kind and asked that he might live in the loft of the corn crib which he fixed up very much as was his old home in the swamp.
The next spring Joe naturally accompanied his master and mistress to their new home and for than thirty years was as faithful and helpful as he knew how to be and his work was done so cheerfully that he endeared himself to the entire family.
At the new home, Joe built for himself a loft over the corncrib and as Sheldrick never bought another negro he continued his isolation from the rest of his tribe.
As stated above, Joe s identity was never known
but the theory was that he had been forced away from a coast planted by the British
and as they were plundering through Wilkes the negro had made his escape to the
swamps where he had lived in utter seclusion for possibly two decades.
While Joe could neither hear nor speak yet he was
quick to catch on by signs and could be made to understand almost anything wanted
of him. As the children grew up they were especially fond of teaching Joe, many
new things and invented their peculiar symbols for his instruction. He was passionately
fond of the children, as well as his master and mistress, so Sheldrick and Nancy
knew he would protect their family with his life, if necessary.
The two older girls were busy all morning looking
after the younger children and helping their mother for as Sheldrick was in so much
pain, Nancy was constantly applying poultices or something to try to relieve his
suffering. Becky had prepared the midday meal almost along, so as soon as Burks
and Joe returned from the field at noon, Nancy hurriedly fixed Joe s dinner in a
pail, gave it to him, and told him to saddle the other horse at once and go for
the doctor. It was a considerable distance and late in the afternoon before Dr.
Hatcher and Joe returned. Meanwhile, as Sheldrick s agony continued, Nancy had Burks
ride over for her brother, James Burks, who lived five miles away.
Uncle Jimmie, as the children called him, came
in just after the doctor. After ministering to Sheldrick to the best of their limited
ability, they went out to their supper and left Becky in attendance upon her father.
In a few minutes Sheldrick seemed perfectly easy and cropped off into a deep sleep.
This frightened the child so she went to the door and called. All came running,
what was their joy to see that Sheldrick was sleeping naturally after his long hours
of agony.
The family had finished their supper so the men
and Burks sat on the porch in the cool spring night. Becky went to her super and
she and Jincey washed the dishes while mother made the younger children ready for
bed and prepared the guestroom for her brother and the doctor. Everyone was tired
out after their strenuous and anxious day so all went to bed and had unbroken rest
until the morning. Sheldrick was the first to waken and told Nancy he felt like
seating a good breakfast. Of course, she soon had it ready for him and the others.
The men and the three older children were in the yard by the old white oak, so when
mother summoned them to breakfast, the children came running ahead to show their
mother that Uncle Jimmy had taught them in their books and the wonderful letters
and figures he had made on the slate for Burks to copy.
Nancy was much pleased and told the children when
breakfast was over they could go to their father and show what they were learning.
Sheldrick was delighted with the help James had given the children. He and Nancy
had been denied schooling, as so many other children were at that time, though both
could read and write a little. Tears came to Sheldrick s eyes as he said, You know,
Jim, it is the dearest wish of mine and Nancy s lives for our children to grow up
to be educated men and women. So far we've done very little as the nearest school
has been in Monticello and that was too far for our children to go. We had made
up our minds, though to begin this summer and that was my main reason in buying
the stick-back gig. Burks is big enough now to drive old Mollie and Becky and Jincey
can go too. I had that in mind when I bought their books the other day while in
town. In fact, it was what I was doing when I had that first attack in my right
side. I just had to sit there until it was over. Then I had another early the next
morning. I feel so much better now that I hope to be up and out soon.
James replied, You've been mighty sick, Sheldrick, and be sure you go very carefully. Speaking of the children's schooling, I think I can help there. I have already decided to open up a school in the little log courthouse at the crossroads during July, August and September. This is much nearer than Monticello and the children can walk except in bad weather. There are about twenty children in the neighborhood and my duties are rather light in the summer so I thought it would be a good thing for me as well the children to have this school. I have spoken to several of the neighbors and they seem pleased with the idea.
James Burks was eight years younger than Nancy and as his father had been settled in Wilkes since 1773, he had accumulated several slaves and much land. More conveniences and a better mode of living was to be had in Wilkes, also schools were receiving more consideration. James and Wiley, being the youngest children, had received a very good common schooling in their county and their father had sent them to the Academy in Augusta. Both boys were diligent and intelligent and manly, and made the best use of their time. James had also drawn land in Jasper County (formerly Baldwin), had married Patsy Robinson four years before and had a little son, John. James was then a justice of the peace, as was then a rather important office, so most of his land was devoted to a range for cattle. Sheldrick and Nancy were delighted at the prospect of a school so near by and promised James they would send three children.
While these three had been in the room talking
and the little girls with the baby under the white oak playing, Burks and the doctor
were walking among the cotton where Joe was hoeing. As they came back through the
yard Burks joined the children and the old doctor walked into the house and joined
the grown-ups. I tell you, Sheldrick, you have the finest, healthiest looking cotton
crop, I ve seen anywhere and I believe you ll make a bale to the acre off that whole
twenty-acre field. It ought to be hoes quickly though so I m sending over my man,
Sam, as soon as I get home to help Joe while you are sick. You know cotton must
be worked fast and you must stay in bed for a few days at least and I don t want
you worrying . The good old man mounted his horse, which James had saddled and rode
away promising to come again the next afternoon. James also left, calling back to
Nancy on the porch, Let me know, Sis, if you need me again .
It was the next afternoon that Sheldrick began
to grow restless saying, I wish the old doc would come. Something someway seems
wrong though I m not in any special pain! Nancy looked at him carefully and he seemed
to have such an unnatural look in his eyes, still she didn t feel especially uneasy,
but sat down beside him with her sewing. Directly little Sheldrick awakened so she
fed him and took him out under the tree with the other children. She told Jincey
to go stay with her father while she and Becky made preparations for supper. Burks
left his play to go make a fire in the kitchen and bring in plenty of wood and water
for morning. Nancy had killed a young chicken and Becky was picking it for she wanted
Pa to have some broth. Jincey came to the door to say he was asleep so they all
stayed out until supper was done. Nancy carried some of the steaming broth, buttered
biscuit, honey and milk to her husband. He roused up but didn t eat much.
It was now nearly dark so she lighted a candle
and looked out. No sign of the doctor so she felt certain he wouldn t come tonight.
Something must have hindered him. Nancy did not feel especially uneasy yet she would
have felt better had the doctor come. Sheldrick was so drowsy and was soon back
to sleep again. She went out to the children who were now ready for their supper
so they were all soon through eating and then ready for bed except Becky who sat
for some time on the porch with her mother. Becky could feel that Ma was worried
though she said nothing about it. Soon they too retired and all were soon fast asleep
until day.
The next morning Nancy slipped quietly out to the
kitchen and though Joe had already made the fire she did not call the children until
she carried Sheldrick s breakfast in.
She set the food down on a chair and looked at
her husband and a cry of alarm rose to her lips but she stifled it. Sheldrick s
eyes were open but he stared at her unconsciously. Nancy ran back quickly to the
yard and had Joe hasten for the doctor. Then she called Burks, gave him something
to eat in his hand and had him hurry on old Mollie for his Uncle Jimmie. She also
told him to get James to send a man for Robert, Sheldrick s brother. The little
girls, all frightened at the stir, quickly dressed and came out. Nancy sent them
out to eat their breakfast but she stayed in the room, tidying things up and doing
other needed things. She carried the baby from his cradle, still asleep, and laid
him on the bed in the children s room. The little girls were soon back from their
breakfast but she sent them out again.
Doctor Hatcher felt a little worried on returning
home the previous evening without having gone to Sheldrick s as he had promised
but his day had been strenuous, as he had to attend a distant patient who was very
sick with swamp fever. I ll get a good night s rest and leave early in the morning.
He did this and was within two miles of Sheldrick s when he met Joe. Nancy was indeed
glad that he had arrived so soon. He adjusted his glasses as he bent over the bed,
carefully lifted a lid of one of Sheldrick s eyes, and then turned to Nancy as he
placed his hand on her shoulder. Be brave, my girl, but, I must tell you the truth.
Your husband can t last more than the day. Something burst inside and he is turning
green with poison. If there had only been some way to get inside, but he couldn
t have stood the pain. Nancy made no outcry but seemed to turn to stone. She had
already, in her note to James, told him Sheldrick was dying, so the doctor s words
only confirmed her fears. She lovingly drew the cover over Sheldrick and went out
on the porch.
She looked down the road and saw James driving
up with Patsy and little John. Nancy went out to the road to meet them. Patsy threw
her arms around her sister-in-law and cried, and for the first time Nancy gave way
to tears. Oh, sis, we too are so grieved. I brought just everything I could handle
that I thought might help. I was looking for William and his family so had cooked
up some cake and bread which I brought and some extra bedding for I knew we would
have to provide pallets to make extra sleeping room. James was busily unpacking.
He kissed his sister, picked up some of the packages and all went into the house.
The doctor was sitting by Sheldrick s bed. They spoke to him, looked a moment at
the dying man, and followed Nancy into the girls room with their packages. Meanwhile
little John had joined his cousins in the back yard, but Becky had come up to Ma
s side and wanted to help.
Sis, you come on and sit by Sheldrick s side for
I know that is where you want to be , said James. Patsy and I can manage everything.
Mandy is with us. Becky and Burks can show us where things are. I brought a young
shoat and beef to barbecue so I ll be busy at that. I brought my man, Shad, to help
so don t worry over a thing.
Just as James left the room, Robert walked in.
He spoke quietly to Nancy, then knelt down by the bedside. Sheldrick was his only
brother. They had lost their mother at a tender age and gone to live with Uncle
Burwell. The two had always been most loyal to each other and now that Robert saw
Sheldrick was going to leave him, it seemed more than he could bear. With tears
in his eyes he said, Nancy, I have already sent for Uncle Burwell and I believe
he ll come if he s able for you know he is very fond of Bud. I ll go out now and
help James but if you need me call .
Neighbors and other friends and relatives came
and went but it all seemed a blur to Nancy. Nothing mattered but Sheldrick and he
was leaving her. Finally Patsy came in the room. Now, Sis, go out to dinner and
try to eat something for you haven t touched food today. I know you don t feel like
it but you must keep up your strength. You have the six best children in the world
and they have helped us a lot .
Nancy went slowly from the room. She knew she couldn
t eat any dinner but she really did and felt much refreshed. She saw that the children
were all right, told Becky to rock little Sheldrick to sleep and put him in his
cradle in the girl s room. Then she slowly went on back to her place by Sheldrick
s side.
People were constantly coming and going with a death like stillness but Nancy noticed nothing but the short breathing of her husband and the ticking of the clock. She knew that both would cease in a short time. The Doctor came in and held his hand to the wrist of the slowly beating pulse of his patient. After seeming hours to Nancy, the Doctor rose from his chair, He s going now , he said softly. Robert, in the doorway hears him and he, the children, and other members of the family gathered round. The Doctor bent over the bed placed his hand on Sheldrick s heart and all was silence. In a short while Doctor Hatcher turned from the bed saying, All is over , walked to the clock and stopped it just as it would have struck six. He walked to the porch and looked at the sun setting gloriously in the west.
Nancy tried to be calm but she just couldn t be still. Now that all was over and Sheldrick no longer needed her she must be busy at something. Patsy rose with her and they went to the Kitchen to make hot coffee and biscuit for all else had been prepared. Patsy went to the door and called for twelve to come out to supper. When they were through twelve more came. After them came the children and the women who helped in serving. Arrangements were made for six of the men to sit up until twelve o clock then there would be six more to sit up until day. Sheldrick had already been laid out in his new suit. That was the work of Robert and James. Some of the neighbors and friends went home and took some of the other guests with them. Two of the women stayed in the kitchen with Mandy to see that the men were served hot coffee and refreshment at midnight. The funeral would be the next day at three o clock. Five of the men had gone to neighbors and were to work until late to get the coffin ready. Four others said they would be back by daylight with their negroes to dig the grave. Nancy had decided that she wanted it at the foot of the big moss-covered rock about fifty yards away on a slope toward the new-ground . Now all the women were busy, with the men s help preparing places to sleep for many had come from a long distance maybe fifteen to twenty miles. The corncrib had a lot of shucks and straw in it, so quilts or sheets were spread and about a dozen men slept there. The negro men went up in the loft with Joe. There were only two negro women and they slept on a pallet in the kitchen. The doctor and another old neighbor occupied the guest chamber and most of the women slept in the room above. James, Patsy, little John and the girls had the girls room, though some of the children had to sleep on pallets.
At noontime more of the neighbors had come in and
brought a bountiful supply of food so all went out in the yard to eat. Just as they
were finishing their repast, Uncle Burwell, with several members of his family,
and the preacher drove up. They had started the afternoon before but spent the night
with a friend on the way. Nancy had seen the old man but once before but she knew
what he had meant to Sheldrick so she broke down and wept as Uncle Burwell clasped
her in his arms. The old minister had baptized Sheldrick so he greeted Nancy with
affection. There was also Cousin Marthy Maddox, Uncle s daughter, and his son Jimmie,
a tall strong lad of fourteen. The newcomers were made welcome, a fresh towel was
brought out to the men through with their ablution, while Cousin Marthy was taken
to the room and food was provided for them.
After all had finished with their eating preparations
were made for the funeral. It was to be held from the house and many of the neighbors
had brought chairs so that all the women and girls could be seated. The little ones
sat in their mothers laps and the men stood with their backs to the wall of the
hall and porch and some sat on the porch edge silently chewing and spitting tobacco,
with their feet resting on the ground. The old minister read the service, made some
timely remarks as to Sheldrick's many virtues then prayed a lengthy prayer for God
s care for the window and orphans. At the close, he asked that anyone who might
wish to take a last look at the dead could come forward at that time. Nancy, supported
by Robert, came first, the children, and others following until everyone present
had gazed in grief or awe at the late departed. There was much demonstration among
the women and children and Uncle Burwell wept aloud.
Six stalwart men bore the body of their dead friend
out through the back door down the slope at the foot of the great rock. Here Sheldrick's body was laid in its last resting place; the grave was soon filled and rounded
over. All were now winding their way home except Uncle Burwell and those with him.
He lived about thirty miles away so decided to wait until morning, get in an early
start and make the trip home in a day. James left Mandy and Shad to help his sister
and with his wife and boy went back home, promising to return the next afternoon.
Uncle Burwell and the minister occupied the guestroom
that night, Nancy, baby Sheldrick, and Marthy stayed in the room with the little
girls and Burks took Jimmie to his room upstairs.
Nancy and Marthy, who had never met before, became
very much attached to each other as they talked late in the night. Marthy was several
years younger than Nancy and had been married to Richard Maddox in 1806. Her husband
was interested in transportation on the Savannah River from Augusta to Savannah.
This kept him from home a great deal so she made her home with her father and mother
in Morgan County. Marthy had four children at that time three girls and a boy. She
and Nancy at last went to sleep and Nancy rested somewhat better than the night
before. She was awake before good daylight and went quietly out to the kitchen.
Already the fire had been made in the fireplace and Vancy had water boiling and
chicken and ham cooking so breakfast was ready and all were enjoying it.
While Jimmie was getting the team ready and Marthy
was busy getting things together for the journey, Burwell took Nancy aside and had
a good heart to heart talk with her. I loved Sheldrick like a son for he was always
good and obedient while living at my house and I believe if he could speak he would
commend you for the course you are taking in holding your family together. That
is by far the wisest plan though it may not seem the easiest now. I don't believe
you'll ever regret it for your children will look to you for strength and counsel,
which they wouldn't have done, had you let them go out from under your control.
I shall constantly ask God s blessing on you and yours and I believe you ll receive
it if you remain strong and steadfast. The old minister came up and added his blessing,
Marthy threw her arms around Nancy and kissed her and the children, and Jimmie gave
her a quiet handshake, and they were off down the road.
The two negro men came up and asked what the missus
wanted them to do that day. Nancy told them to go to the early corn field and give
it a plowing for she remembered with a great throbbing pain, that was what Sheldrick
aid was needed three days ago. Three days, it seemed like three centuries.
Mandy left the dishes to the girls and came in the house and began taking out bedding,
airing and sunning and cleaning. She had a big pot of boiling water at the spring
so she took all the bedlinen, towels, etc. down there and soon Nancy heard her battling
stick going with a vim and before long Mandy was back to the house helping Miss
Nancy clean and arrange the chairs and furniture in place. Burks was out hoeing
in the garden, Becky was gathering vegetables for dinner and Jincey was entertaining
the younger children.
In the midst of their busy morning, James Burks
drove up. Hi, Sis, I came over to help but the way you are getting things done I
don't believe you need me, called James. But I'll ride on over to the field and
see how the men are getting on at their plowing, so he drove on up through the
lane.
Everyone was busy all day but at night after James
had left with the two negroes everything seemed awfully lonely and desolate to the
little family. Nancy made a big effort and showed the children that they must be
brave. She saw that the children were comfortable for the night then went back to
her bed in her same old room where she and Sheldrick had slept for ten years, but
now he was not. Still she looked over at her sleeping baby and as she grabbed him
to her breast she murmured, yes, I still have something for which to be thankful
.
The thing Nancy and Sheldrick had tried to impress
most on the children after being honest and truthful was to be net and orderly and
have respect for each other s belongings. Becky and Burks were especially impressed
by their parents teaching and this was a great help to the others. Jincey was sweet
and good but she depended too much on her older sister. Still, no one could entertain
the younger children quite so well as she and this job was most often left to her.
James had
left word that as soon as Joe finished plowing in the early corn he should start
plowing the cotton, and immediately after plowing it should be hoed for it would
be an easy matter to get the few springs of weeds or grass left after the plow.
Now Nancy had never worked in the field though she had hoed in her garden and flower
yard. So as son as Joe began plowing the cotton, she, Becky, and Burks followed
with the hoeing. They would rise early in the morning get through with breakfast
and the housework by seven o clock and the three would work until ten while Jincey
looked after the three little children the cotton field was within call of the house
and there was nothing to harm them. Then they came home, cooked dinner, and rested
or slept for a couple of hours, and the three were back at their work until sunset
when all came to the house. Joe and Burks attended to the stock, milked the cows,
brought in wood and water while Nancy and Becky prepared supper. All were ready
to eat before dark, went into the house and soon all was still for the night.
Oh! It was
hard for Nancy and there were times when she felt she couldn't go on. Yet she plodded
on and always tried to hide her discouragement from the children. Another thing
that grieved her was the fact that she couldn't see clearly how she would be able
to send them to school. She knew James would take them tuition free, but she felt
too proud to be indebted to even her brother. She and the children must make their
way. While Nancy was pondering these things it was the Sabbath and rest day, so
she had more time for pondering---James, with his wife and boy drove up to spend
the day. James had many things to talk over with his sister so soon after their
arrival he and Nancy went to walk over the farm leaving the children with Patsy.
James was
indeed gratified to see the crop in such good shape especially the cotton plowed
and hoed and commended Nancy for her excellent management. But I tell you, Sis,
you are going at too rapid a gait. Your health and strength will be worth more to
you and your family than anything else and you must not impair that.
You just
can t know, James, that I can't stand to be idle a minute for my responsibility
weighs me downs if I have time to think about it. Then at night I am so tired that
I can lose myself in sleep.
Nancy looked
so forlorn that James could not bear to chide her, and while he loved his sister
devotedly and always admired her for her wonderful traits of character, they were
never demonstrative. James knew that Nancy would never accept charity from him or
anyone else so he had to choose his words carefully.
I tell you,
Sis, I've thought of a plan that will be beneficial for both of us and prevent your
and Becky s working in the field. You know I'll have to be in Monticello for all
this month of May and possibly a little longer, attending court and other business.
Now, you know, my legal affairs take me from home a great deal and my farm interests
are mostly in cattle so I've decided to go to my house in Monticello and my wife
and baby. We shall take Mandy for a house-girl and leave Sol, his wife and boy to
look after the farm and you see that leaves Shad with nothing to do. He doesn't
get along with Sol very well, when I am away anyway; so if you d like to rent him
you can have him for his keep and some eggs and chickens. We'll be needing them
as you now most of our hens died of limber neck in the early spring. Another thing,
James continued, You'll be wanting to make some new clothes for the children to
get them ready for school, so if you'll make out your list I'll get the things tomorrow
as I have to go to Macon. What do you say?
Nancy knew
that James was trying his best to help without letting her know she was to reap
all the benefit. She fully appreciated this and accepted his generosity gratefully.
So when her guests were ready to leave, she gave James her list, some things he
said he could barter, and some money. The next morning, bright and early, Shad came
over and went to work with Joe. Burks often went with the negroes and saw that his
mother s orders were carried out. Burks did not spend all his time in the field
but came back to the house and did odd jobs. He always found some time to write
and study; for each time Uncle Jimmie came, he would set some new school task for
the children. Nancy let them study undisturbed while she looked after the little
ones.
All went well, the middle of June had come, Uncle Jimmie
was back and school had opened in the little log courthouse. Nancy felt mighty proud
of her three school children in nice new clothes that she and Becky had made, a
shining dinner pail of lunch, a bottle of milk, and a book and slate apiece in their
arms. Maybe they wouldn t be the smartest, best children in the school, thought
Nancy, as they walked proudly down the road and waved back to her when they came
to the turn, but they are mine, and I know they ll do their best.
Elizabeth
was the eldest left at home now and she felt very important that it was her job
to watch over Sallie and Sheldrick. She watched her mother at her work and grew
very helpful for the schoolchildren were away from early morning until late afternoon.
They still did a few chores before supper and studied for awhile before going to
bed but in the morning Nancy didn't wake any of the children until the school lunches
were fixed and breakfast was ready. The two negroes were helpful about the hardest
work at the house, and were in the fields before sun-up. The summer soon passed,
the little school was closed, and Nancy was mighty proud of the records of her children.
Becky was reading nicely in her Bible and writing such a pretty hand; Jincey was
to horseback in her speller and could read and write a little. Burks went as far
as baker in his speller, couldn't read much, but wrote very smoothly and could cipher
as well as some of the big boys, Uncle Jimmie said.
Nancy, the
children and slaves were now busy with the cotton. They had to hire some help, but,
for the most part, they did the work themselves. The little ones played around the
baskets while the others worked. Nancy and the children were especially proud of
the cotton crop for they felt it was indeed the work of their hands. The neighbors
advised Nancy to hire old Sam Wright to handle her cotton as he kept teams for that
purpose. He was honest and would haul the cotton to the gin, bring back her part
of the seed, take the cotton to the best market which was now Augusta bring back
the money and charge a reasonable per cent for his services. Nancy, too, thought
this best so she engaged Wright for the job.
The morning
Wright was to leave for Augusta with Nancy s first load of baled cotton, Wright
came by to get his food, which Nancy had agreed to furnish for the journey. She
had it nicely packed in a basket and handed it out to him. Of course, she naturally
thought the man would put in on the wagon and drive on. Instead he sat down and
ate and ate and ate. Finally he handed the basket back to Nancy. She was so astonished
and distressed that she burst into tears for she had spent so many hours in preparing
the food and trying to fix it particularly well that she was worn completely out
over her efforts. She just couldn't begin all over again. Wright sensed Nancy s
distress so quickly spoke, Don t worry, don t worry, Madam, I always eat all I can
before I start and this lasts me for the three days journey. Your food was extra
good and I m mighty blessed to you and will now proceed. So saying he flourished
his old fur cap and left.
The cotton
crop turned out about as well as expected though it did not make a bale to the acre.
They got fifteen bales and after all expenses were paid, Nancy had $500 clear, which
her brother deposited at a small interest in the bank at Milledgeville. It made
her feel much more secure to know she had a little something for a rainy day and
she meant that it should be used only for that purpose. Now that the cotton crop
was harvested there still remained plenty of other work to be done before cold weather
came. Nancy and Becky were busy spinning, weaving and making the winter clothes.
Burks and the negroes were working steadily preparing the ground for the next year
s crop. Winter wheat and oats had already been sown. On wet days, if not too disagreeable,
fire wood was brought from the woods and cut and piled, more sheds were added to
take care of the increased animals. Oh, there was always something but with Nancy
ever at the helm, everything moved on at a normal pace.
Of course,
there were plenty of discouragement s, plenty of heartaches, but she moved patiently,
steadily, forward and when spring came Nancy felt humble and thankful that they
were able to start new crops, send the children back to school, and still have food
and clothes for all. Shad was a good quiet negro and he didn't seem to disturb Joe
at all. Nancy was glad to keep Shad, for, as James said it kept the overstrain of
labor lifted from her shoulders. She and the children also attended church services
as often as they were held. The children still studied some at night and though
they many not have progressed much still it kept them from forgetting. Burks kept
all the family accounts and this was great relief for his father had always done
this.
Nancy was
a good neighbor and was always ready to do a good turn. As the children grew older
she found time to visit more; also the children went more. There were not so many
social gatherings but when there were, some or maybe all of her flock were there.
The muster roll in Monticello was a great event each year. Uncle Jimmie was one
of the lieutenants, also Uncle Robert, and the children thought they looked grand
riding along in their uniforms.
Two years after Sheldrick's death dear old Uncle Burwell passed on. The older children had
attended the funeral. Richard Maddox had failed completely in business ruined by
an unscrupulous partner. Richard had come back to his father-in-law s to live all
broken in health. James had enlisted with Andrew Jackson in the Seminole war in
Florida at the age of sixteen. In 1819 he came home and married Mary Butler. Shortly
after this Richard Maddox died and Martha soon followed leaving six helpless, penniless
children to the mercies of their relatives. Martha had spent all her patrimony trying
to recuperate the lost fortunes of her husband. James, though not yet of age, took
care of the oldest girl, Nancy, and her oldest brother, Thomas. You may be sure
Nancy s heart went out to them in their double bereavement and yearned to do something
to help.
It was now 1821, the children were growing up rapidly
and even little Sheldrick was in school, the previous summer. The winter had been
unusually cold, but there was now promise of spring for buds were swelling and shoots
of grass and flowers began to appear. All was bustle and stir in Nancy s household
for today was March 1, and little Virginia s wedding. Mastin Hatcher, the youngest
son of the old doctor, was the lucky man. He was several years older than Jincey,
as she was always called, but an excellent young fellow. How that the good doctor
had passed on, the old home had been left to Mastin and already he had accumulated
quiet a competence.
Nancy knew that Mastin was a good honorable man
and for some time she had known that he and Virginia were in love and she would
have to give her up, still as Jincey said, I won t be so far but what you can come
to see me Ma, and I can come to see you all too . Jincey had always been such a
quiet, modest, sweet girl, and now she was blossoming out into a beautiful woman.
All winter the three women had been extra busy spinning, weaving, and sewing for
they wanted Jincey to go to her husband with something of her own. They had already
saved up enough feathers from their geese for a new bed and pillows, which naturally
should go to Becky, but Becky turned them over to Jincey as she said she would have
plenty of time to get others before she got off.
The house was practically the same as when their
father left them. All preparations were completed, big fires were blazing from the
hearths, and the guestroom was as pretty as the girls could make it, for here the
wedding would take place. The trunk and boxes were already packed and waiting. In
them were the garments, bed linen, quilts, towels, etc., which all had contributed
with their own hands. The guests began to arrive and soon the house was filled.
Virginia looked lovely in her blue linsey-woolsey dress, which she and ma and Becky
had made. The poke bonnet with pink and blue flowers was very becoming for it set
off the sweet girlish beauty of the young girl. She was waiting in her mother s
room. Presently Mastin, dressed in black broadcloth and looking very uncomfortable
in a high stiff collar came in. Virginia put her hand in his arm and they walked
slowly into the guestroom. Uncle Jimmie performed the ceremony and the young couple
was showered with congratulations. After a short time they departed for their home.
Some of the friends and relatives from a distance
had to spend the night for it was already mid-afternoon and not time enough to reach
home before dark. Nancy was prepared, however, and when suppertime came passed a
cold lunch with hot coffee to her guests there in the house. Sleeping arrangements
were made for all and in the morning a hot steaming breakfast cheered the guests
on their way.
At first the family seemed lost without Jincey,
but they soon got accustomed to the missing place and as spring was coming, there
were plenty of tasks for all. As she had promised, Virginia came often for she was
devoted to her family and there were so many housekeeping and other problems that
she must discuss with her mother.
OTHERS LEAVE THE HOME NEST
Six more years had now gone by and Burks was twenty.
For several years he had taken complete charge of the farm, and become head of the
household. He was a young man of excellent character and good habits. He never chewed
or smoked tobacco nor became intoxicated. Though he was not yet of age, he took
deep interest in all public affairs and was very prominent in his church. The farm
was prospering under his good management and the family was living in plenty. Another
new ground had been cleared and they were now growing more cotton though they still
grew plenty of food and feed for the family and their animals. Burks still rented
Shad from his Uncle James Burks, as James was now in the legislature at the capitol
in Milledgeville.
Uncle Jimmie was still deeply interested in their
welfare and was their wise counselor in all-grave questions. He and Aunt Patsy came
up for Elizabeth s wedding, which was March 8, 1827. About the same preparations
were made for it as for Virginia s. Elizabeth was nearly eighteen and very pretty
but a different type of beauty as she had black straight hair though very glossy.
Her husband was Williamson Shropshire who lived in an adjoining county. Uncle Jimmie
performed the ceremony there at Nancy s home.
Later in the year James made a trip over to the
new territory in the western part of the state that had recently been ceded by the
Indians and was now being surveyed.
James was much impressed by the section especially
that part that was afterwards called Talbot Valley, and was soon afterwards cut
off from Troup and Muscogee counties, and with more land, made into Talbot County.
It was already decided where the county site should be and several huts were already
built for the surveyors. While James liked the Valley better yet he decided that
as his business was more of a legal nature he had best have his holdings nearer
to the courthouse if he could secure land there.
There were many of his friends and neighbors that
were interested too, so when it was found that the new territory would be drawn
by lottery there was much excitement all over Jasper and all the old counties and
great stir at Monticello and other county sites.
Every man and woman at the head of a household
had chances to draw during the time the lottery was being held which was for more
than two months beginning March 5, 1827. Many speculators were on hand for there
were many who drew lucky numbers who never intended to occupy their new possessions
so these speculators were busy buying and selling. Burks could not draw but he was
intensely interested in the proceedings. The land would be ready for occupation
next year, as the surveying was not yet completed. Each lot was to contain 202 acres.
Burks had been eagerly listening to many conversations among the men and all expressed
themselves that it would be a wonderful opportunity for a young man without encumbrances.
Even men with families were buying many lots and expected to move out during the
next years. Burks had good offers from prominent men who needed just such a young
man to help them get moved and started off in their new homes.
Burks pondered all this as he went about his work
during the remainder of the year. His mother noticed his abstraction but said nothing
as she wanted him to make his own decisions and she felt that the time was not yet
ripe for her to speak. The new year started off auspiciously and the farm work was
already well begun when Burks twenty-first birthday arrived on May 5. He then went
to his mother and laid before her all that was in his mind. Nancy knew that she
would miss her boy more than she could say, but, being the wise mother that she
was, told him she thought it was his opportunity and that he should grasp it. Sheldrick
was not fifteen and it would be a good thing for the younger boy to assume more
responsibility. Burks told her that the men around them would not go until their
crops were laid by and partly harvested, and too, he wanted to stay for his sister
Becky s wedding which would be august 10. She was marrying Daniel Trussell and they
too had drawn or bought land in Talbot County.
Burks worked on with a fierce decision and saw
that no time was lost either by himself or the negroes, and Sheldrick worked steadily
too, so things were in good shape by august 12, the date set for their journey.
James had decided definitely to go and had procured his land, though his duties
in Jasper kept them until September. James engaged Burks to take his four negro
men with a wagonload of provisions and other most necessary articles and go ahead
to begin the work of clearing. Great droves of mules had been sent down from Tennessee
and Kentucky and they were readily purchased, especially by the men who were moving.
James bought four for they would be of more service in the new country.
The eventful day arrived. Daniel drove up to the house first with his outfit a new covered wagon with two mules hitched to it. Becky, with her mother and the other children was standing at the door with her trunk and boxes all ready. She threw her arms around her mother as if she could not let go, then embraced Sallie and Sheldrick and joined her husband. Burks threw his horse s rein over the gatepost and came in. He, too, bade affectionate farewell to his family and old Joe and promised his mother that he wouldn't be back the next year in time to start off the crop. He mounted his horse and drove off to the crossroads where he was to take charge of Uncle Jimmie s outfit. Joe and Shad followed on foot, Joe to bring Burks horseback and Shad to join the others for Talbot County.
Nancy felt desolate indeed to give up the two children
who had always been such a help and comfort. But even then she did not despair but
put an arm around each of her youngest children and told them that they, with old
Joe, would still carry on. Nancy was lots older now but she still had that strong
determination to make the best of her lot and never let her children know she was
discouraged. Sallie and Sheldrick though they had never felt responsibility before,
felt now that they must take the older children s places and help Ma all they could.
It was still quite early in the morning, August
12, 1828, when Burks, his relatives and neighbors started on their way to their
new homes. They were routed by Macon, as that was the best road. Here they camped
the first night. They went by the Old Horse Trail to Flint River and there camped
on the second night. Some of the party who were going to Meriwether County separated
from Burks party the next morning after crossing the river. Late in the afternoon
they reached the present city, of Talbotton. All decided to camp there for the night.
On the following morning many in the party left for other sections. Fortunately,
Burks was very near the place that belonged to his Uncle Jimmie. He and the negroes
soon had the team on the land and began work at once. James Burks had given Burks
instructions as to what he wished done and his nephew and the negroes first pitched
a tent and began unloading the necessary things from the wagon. With axes and saws
they began on a cabin that must be ready for the family in a couple of weeks. Then
another cabin that would be occupied by the negroes must be built. As the weather
was warm and fair now it was more pleasant out of doors.
The great-unbroken forest was beautiful with its
grand, oak, hickory and other lovely trees. Most of the settlers would make their
dwelling convenient to a good spring but as there was none on this lot they would
have to depend on a well. This must be dug and sheltered over. Places must also
be provided for their cattle, hogs, horses and mules. Work was progressing fast
and yet Burks found time to do many neighborly kindnesses. Public buildings had
to be erected in the new city and he was always willing to give his quote of time.
It was found necessary to have a courthouse and jail immediately, so this was the
public work that was done first. More real carpenters were needed so Burks offered
his services for that after Uncle Jimmie had come and taken charge at home.
Mr. Dave Bryan, said to be the wealthiest man in
the county and owned the most slaves, was very much interest in Burks work. He noticed
the careful intelligent manner in which he was building book shelves and pigeon
holes for papers. Finally he spoke to Burks. Young man, you are the very person
I wish to superintend a job for me. We have already built some cabins but my sawmill
starts up next week and I want to begin on a much larger house for my dwelling.
My family is large and we are in great need for more room. So far, I haven t been
able to get a man that could do my job, but I believe you can .
Burks was please at the praise of this man for
he already knew who he was. And while Mr. Bryan was a man who was honest and just
yet he was very exacting in his ideas. When Burks came to this new land he had made
up his mind that he would go slowly before he decided on a definite place to settle,
and too, he did not draw any land and he had no money with which to purchase any.
First class builders were making good money so Burks considered this a very good
offer. He told Mr. Bryan he was not a settler here and had promised to go back to
Jasper in about five months from now. That s all right, boy, I already know something
of you and your people and that s why I wish to engage your services. We ll begin
next Monday morning if we can come to an agreement as to your price. A lot can be
done in five months .
A contract was agreed on and the next Sunday afternoon
Uncle Jimmie took Burks out to Mr. Bryan s place. The two older men made friends,
at once, and as both were Baptist they begun to discuss the question of organizing
a Baptist church.
This is one of the most centrally located sections
of the northern-part of the country and I believe it is the place to put the church,
said Mr. Bryan. Already I have been talking to my friend, John Lloyd, who has big
holdings in Talbot Valley and he quiet agrees with me. Billie Holmes also is a Baptist
and lots of other families around here . James fully agreed to his plan and said
he would like to discuss it more fully at another time, but now he must be getting
home. So after bidding his nephew and the family goodbye, he drove away.
Monday morning Burks was ready to begin on the
house. It took some time to get the foundations ready for the timbers for Burks
was very careful and exact in all his measurements. He had several rather intelligent
slaves who were to build the rock pillars and chimneys; the rocks were already selected
and lying nearby. Mr. Bryan s overseer was a fairly good carpenter and much help
in getting the sills ready. The house was to be four large rooms, with a hall between,
on the first floor and three rooms upstairs, the stairs going up from the hall.
The dining room and kitchen were to be in the back yard separate from the remainder
of the house. By Saturday noon the rock pillars were in place, the chimneys begun
and the sills laid. The wagons came from the sawmill laden with sleepers and joists.
Mr. Bryan was a proud as a boy over the accomplishment of the week and gave the
men a holiday for being so faithful.
The next day being Sunday, all were preparing for
church to be held in a grove above the house. All the neighbors and friends were
notified and Ben Lloyd, the son of John Lloyd, was to preach. He had preached several
times already at different places in the county. On this day a conference was to
be held and the people were to vote on location for a church. Mr. Bryan and several
others were in favor of this place because of its central location and the spring
nearby where a pool could be made for baptizing purposes. The Reverend Ben Lloyd
gave a stirring sermon and afterwards, in conference, this place was decided on
by an overwhelming majority. A presbytery from the Echoconnah Association was invited
to meet with them the next Sunday and organize the church. All left the grove much
pleased and looking forward to the near future when they would have a flourishing
church and a house of worship. Several of the more distant neighbors came to Mr.
Bryan s house for dinner, among them the preacher and his father. Burks was impressed
by both and they by him.
Big preparations were being made all over the neighborhood
for the all day meeting on the next Sunday. Heretofore meetings had been held at
different homes in the Valley Grove and Talbot Valley districts. There had been
several different preachers but the Reverend Ben Lloyd had held most of the sessions,
as he was always available. Mr. Bryan had notified the Echoconnah Association of
their desire to be organized into a church and become a member of their association.
The Association had written that they would be glad to meet with the people and
make a church of those desiring membership.
It was a lovely day the next Sunday in mid October
when the crowd gathered in the same grove for their organization. The address of
welcome was delivered by Reverend Ben Lloyd, after which great baskets of lunch
were spread on improvised tables and lunch was participated in by all. The lunch
hour was an excellent time to talk over plans for the church for all were in affable
frame of mind and felt unusually brotherly. The good women saw that everyone was
served bountifully but did not take much part in the discussions except among themselves.
After the repast was over the people again gathered
into a quiet group and members of the Echoconnah Association explained the object
of their coming together and the necessary rules and regulations by which each member
should abide. This was plainly and forcibly expounded by the Reverend Andrew Hood.
He made clear to the audience what would be their duties and obligations and charged
them strictly with the sacredness of the step they were undertaking. After the Reverend
Hood had finished his discourse, several others had some things to say. It was found
how many wished to join this organization and become a church. About forty people
raised their right hand so it was moved and seconded and voted on that this body
become a church and that it be called The Valley Grove church of upper Talbot county,
and should be a member of the Echoconnah Association. As the day was far spent,
the body was dismissed after agreeing to meet again the next Sunday.
It was another glorious day when the following
Sunday the membership met in the Grove. There was to be no regular sermon, as much
business had to be performed. Deacons had to be chosen and ordained, a pastor must
be elected, the big question as to whether they should begin now or wait until spring
about building was discussed pro and con. Reverend Ben Lloyd was made moderator
and the membership was keenly alive to its duties. Rev. Lloyd asked God s guidance
and benediction on all they did and said and immediately the business was begun.
The Rev. Andrew Hood was called to be their first pastor. (Rev. Ben Lloyd had refused
to have his name before the body, as he did not feel that he was orthodox enough
to be the pastor.) Deacons were chosen and would be ordained the next Sunday. Among
them were Hardy Bryan, Billy Homes, and Burks Kendrick. Most of the deacons were
young men as the members felt there would be many hardships to encounter and it
would take strong capable men to endure them.
Now the problem of the meeting house was discussed
for sometime, the members being about equally divided in their opinions. Those opposed
to building at once said, You know we have been here such a short time that the
real necessities for a comfortable home have not yet been provided sufficiently
to keep our families from suffering from cold during the winter. Our negroes and
stock may die if exposed to the blasts of the weather . This was all quite true
and it could be seen that many voiced the sentiments just spoken. Then old Dave
Bryan arose, Men and brethren , he began, We know every word that has been spoken
is the truth and we know that man s responsibility begins with his home. But, brothers,
we also know we have a bigger responsibility toward our god and have pledged ourselves
for the furthering of his kingdom. How do we know how many souls may perish if we
do not open a door to them? Yes, brothers, we have heavy responsibilities but, I
for one, am not willing to thrust any aside. By God s help, I expect to meet both.
Right no I am in the midst of building against the cold winter and so are you but
let s each of us give on day out of the six for building on the Lord s house and
the seventh for worshipping in his holy temple . This enthusiasm caught the crowd
by storm and everyone agreed as Mr. Bryan had said.
Each went home and resolved with such leadership
they would indeed accomplish what they had set out to do. Burks, though one of the
youngest leaders, was most enthusiastic. He was asked to draw up plans for the church
building. He did it before he slept that night and submitted them to a committee
that met the next day to arrange the work in relays so that there would never be
too few or too many there at the same time. While Mr. Bryan s timbers were seasoning
for his own house, he had more cut for the church. As he was the only member that
had a sawmill, he agreed to furnish most of the lumber. Besides this, there were
rocks to be hauled, stills to be hewn, boards to be rived, doors to be made, windows
to be bought and many other kinds of work for all. Of course, Burks s time during
the day belonged to his employer; nevertheless, he would sit up far into the night
planning so that the work should move on just right.
It was a grand work that these men put over but
when the Christmas holiday came it was celebrated with a special rejoicing in that
community for the Lord s house was finished. Many new members were added to the
church especially among the young people. All felt proud of their new house and
thankful for the part they had in the building. And, strange to say, the work on
each individual home had prospered for the weather had been unusually favorable
and no one would have to suffer. It was indeed a happy time and services were never
enjoyed more.
BURK S SUPREME HAPPINESS
You may be sure that Burks was one of the busiest
people during the autumn of 1828. Besides his duties at Mr. Bryan s home he had
spent many extra hours working at the church especially the inside finishing that
had to be done so carefully. He had already given much time to the planning of the
church more even than a day a week but now that the planning was over he must do
some of the actual work with his hands. The inside facings of the windows, the setting
in of the windows, the hanging of the doors, the building of the benches, and other
like things were almost altogether his handiwork.
Burks was also well pleased with the way in which
the work on Mr. Bryan s house progressed. He saw that every part was well fitted
and accurate. The rocks were carefully selected for the chimneys. The boards were
smoothly rived for the roof and painstakingly put on so there would be no leak.
Mr. Bryan was not only well pleased with the job, but more so with the young man.
He couldn t praise and commend him highly enough to his friends and neighbors. They
all felt that he would be a fine acquisition to the neighborhood and hoped that
he would settle down among them.
A few days before the Christmas holidays Burks
wished to go to Talbotton to purchase some clothes as his wardrobe was not as spick
and span as he liked. He was most careful of his body and clothes and no matter
what kind of rough or dirty work he was doing, he must always clean up before resting
or going elsewhere. Burks had already bought a good saddle horse so he would ride
that to Talbotton on Saturday morning. There were also some finishing materials
that he needed about the church and the Bryan dwelling which would be brought back
in the wagon. Burks made his hardware purchases first then went to the dry goods
store to get his clothes. He bought a full outfit and a suit of black clothes, shirt,
collar, tie, shoes, hat, etc. He saw that his things were carefully packed in a
box to be given to the negro driver to whom he had already given instructions as
to their utmost care. He then proceeded to the courthouse and there he found his
Uncle Jimmie just leaving for dinner. Of course, James invited Burks home with him
for dinner for they had many things to talk over. The two were very fond of each
other and Burks had only been to Talbotton once since he had been working for Mr.
Bryan. Aunt Patsy and the children were also glad to see him. John Robinson had
grown into a tall you lad of seventeen. There were many things for Burks to do after
he returned home so he left his uncle s house about three o clock.
On returning home he found that the wagons had
already arrived before hi, the hardware stored in the back hall, and his personal
belongings in his own room. He did not open his own packages but selected certain
pieces of hardware, called one of the negroes to assist him and went up to the church
to do a few finishing touches before dark. This church was a dear place to Burks
and always on entering he felt a sacredness and awe that the presence of God was
with him. Each time that he did there was done with special care and reverence and
he breathed a prayer that it might always be so and that he would prove a strong
and useful member.
The next day Burks was the one of the first to
reach the church, for he felt it his duty as a deacon, and having no family encumbrances,
to be there to welcome the people. He looked very striking in his new suit with
high white collar and black tie. His apparel seemed to set off his black hair, keen
deep blue eyes and rather solemn countenance. He was just about six feet and carried
himself very erect. In fact each one that greeted him seemed keenly impressed by
his courtly bearing. Burks remained on the outside greeting the people until services
were begun. Then he took a seat near the door at the right.
Burks joined heartily in the singing and just before
the first hymn was finished two beautiful young girls with their mother entered.
They were shown seats by an usher near the center of the middle aisle, the older
girl taking the outside seat. As she turned to sit down she gave Burks a fleeting
glimpse. A strange sweet feeling possessed him and he knew at once that was the
girl he wished to marry. Her presence did not seem to distract his attention from
the services but rather entered into and permeated his very being. All was as it
should be his deep reverence for God and his instant love for the girl were interwoven
in his soul. The church life that he was enjoying would also be their life.
When the morning services were over John Lloyd, Jr., who sat across from Burks, came over and shook hands with him saying, Burks, I want you to meet my mother and sisters, Frances and Sarah. The girls just returned from school yesterday and are stranger to everybody . Just then the three women cam up and Burks was duly presented to each. Mrs. Lloyd very kindly invited Burks to eat dinner with them and you are sure he accepted readily. As yet he has passed no word with Frances except in introduction but he was carefully planning how he might be alone with her. He knew the grounds well where they were spreading their dinners and was very solicitous to see that everyone was being served.
accepted readily. As yet he had passed no word with Frances except in introduction but he was carefully planning how he might be alone with her. He knew the grounds well where they were spreading their dinners and was very solicitous to see that everyone was being served. Plates laden with food were handed out to the people as long as they were needed. Frances was quite busy assisting her mother. Burks came up to them and offered his services. Mrs. Lloyd, who was not very strong, found a place to sit down, so Burks took her place and stood beside Frances with the basket between them. They didn t have much to say but the feeling of nearness permeated them and frequently as they reached in the basket to serve some one or get food for themselves their hands would touch or their eyes would meet.
Frances was a fair pretty girl of seventeen. Her
eyes were blue and her face had a sweetness and serenity that was charming. Her
fair curls protruded from her poke bonnet and her blue coat and hat just matched
her eyes. No wonder Burks was spellbound and she, too, seemed equally impressed.
Soon the crowd was scattering, the Negroes came up toward the tables to take charge,
and Burks and Frances moved toward the church. They went in and sat down together
and enjoyed the afternoon session.
After the services were over, Ben Lloyd came up
to the couple and asked Burks to go home with them for supper for several of the
young people were going to try out some of the new songs in their books. Ben was
a wonderful singer and had already composed many sacred songs. Naturally Burks was
delighted and asked Frances to accompany him home on his horse. A blanket was secured
from Mrs. Bryan and Burks carefully spread it on the horse s back assisted Frances
in mounting, and then mounted himself. Many young couples traveled likewise. Some
people were in wagons, some in gigs, and a few had rockaways drawn by two horses.
The Lloyd home was in Talbot Valley about four miles from the church, so it was
almost dark when they reached there.
Supper was served in the living room where a great
log fire was burning cheerily. After they were through eating, they sat and talked
for a while, but Ben saw to it that they were at the singing before very long. Books
were passed around among the men and they chose a girl to share their books with
each of them. Ben made such an enthusiastic leader that all joined in heartily and
made much progress in learning the songs.
Soon the guests left for their homes and as Burks
rode thoughtfully back he passed in review what the day had brought him. He knew
that it was the most important moment in his life for his decision was made to win
Frances Lloyd for his wife and to dedicate himself entirely to the service of the
Lord. After he reached home, put up his horse, and went to his room, he made a prayer
of love and thanksgiving to God for all his goodness and tender mercies.
January and February were passing swiftly and March
was rapidly approaching the time set for Burks to return to his mother in Jasper
County. It had become a habit for him to go to see Frances every Sunday and sometimes
for dinner, but more often in the evening. Frequently, they met at other places
and everyone knew they were engaged for from the first they each had eyes for no
other. Burks had told Frances of his promise to his mother and that he must fulfill
it but at the end of the year he would return and their marriage would soon follow.
Frances knew this to be the wisest plan for she had been away at school for the
past two years and there were many things for her to do and learn about. It was
while calling the Sunday night before leaving for his old home that he and Frances
were talking these things over. No one was at home except Frances parents so hand
in hand they quietly walked in and told her father and mother about their plans.
Of course, the parents were not surprised for they could see how beautifully Frances
and Burks loved each other so they gave them their blessings and Burks soon left.
Early the next morning he set out on his horse
for his home. Traveling lightly, and spending one night on the way, he arrived the
next afternoon just at dusk. He met Sheldrick at the barn and quietly the two entered
the house. Sallie saw Burks first and had her arms around her brother before Nancy
realized what was happening. She rose swiftly, crying My boy, my boy , and soon
they were in each other s arms, weeping for joy. They gazed lovingly into each other
s eyes. Nancy saw the stalwart beauty and character of her older son and he, in
turn, saw the calm brave sweetness in her dear old face - - grown much older since
he had been away. Yes, they had missed each other sorely since he had been away.
Ever since her dear husband s death Burks had been her main strength and support.
Burks, in his turn, felt all that his mother had meant to him - - how she had always
been his ideal woman and new that Frances had come into his life, he appreciated
and loved her more.
Burks had written very little of Frances to his
mother as he wished to be face to face with her when he told her the story of his
great love. Just as Burks knew she would Nancy showed complete sympathy and understanding.
She would not let him see the shadow that came over her face; however, when he told
her of his prospective move back to Talbot County when the year was out. The family
talked over their affairs far into the night. Burks told them of spending the day
with Becky the Sunday before and that she and Daniel were getting on nicely.
And now I want to go see Jincy and Betsy and I
must get down to work. I have a better plan, said Nancy, You go in the gig and get
the girls and bring them here as it s time for them to be making me a visit anyway.
The next morning as Burks went in the kitchen for breakfast, Joe came in with wood.
He dropped it in the middle of the floor and clapped his hands in delight when he
saw Burks. Burks shook hands with the good old Negro, as Joe bent almost to the
floor in greeting. Just to please him, Burks gave orders for Joe to hitch his horse
to the gig. Soon the two married girls were home for the day and night and you may
be sure it was a lovely reunion for all. Mastin came for his wife and her sister
early the next morning.
As had been agreed, Burks and Sheldrick had divided
the land and rented it from their mother. Sheldrick was to have Joe and the two
horses at home. Burks rented a Negro, bought a mule, and was to put most of his
farm in cotton as he wanted a money crop. Burks paid Sheldrick for the work he had
done in breaking up the land, and planting grain for him. Sheldrick was not yet
of age but a fine strong lad almost as tall and large as his brother. Burks noticed
with pleasure how much this year s responsibility had developed the boy.
Nancy was so happy to have both her boys at home
that she went about her work with a song on her lips, a prayer of thanksgiving in
her heart. Sallie, too, seemed happier and enjoyed showing off her big brother among
her friends. She especially wanted him to meet Chris Binns, a young widower in whom
she was very much interested. He had lately come into the neighborhood and he and
his mother lived near the Hatcher s. Burks thought Chris a find man and very much
in love with Sallie but hesitant about getting married on account of his old mother.
Burks was interested in all his old neighbors and
friends and took part in the activities of the community, especially the church
work, as was his wont, but his heart was back in Talbot and his work here was just
to speed the time of his getting back. He wrote long and frequent letters to Frances
and she to him each telling of their daily occupations. The time was passing, but
not so rapidly as they wished but they had made up their minds to be patient, for
there was plenty of work to fill their time ere their reunion.
It was now June and the crops were growing rapidly
and making the promise of a splendid yield. Burks and Sheldrick vied in friendly
rivalry in their efforts to out do each other. The Negroes too seemed to catch the
spirit of their masters and did their best. Their oats and wheat were now being
harvested and each found they had plenty to run on for the year. Later in the summer
they found their corn and their cotton excellent. Of course, they had to hire extra
help in the gathering. There were more gins now and their best cotton market was
Macon. The boys would alternate in making the trip as it took three days there and
back. Burks was trying to turn all his crop into money as fast as he could and depositing
it in the bank in Macon.
As last the year s work was done and the time was
drawing near for Burks departure. He had decided to lease the Negro Dave for a term
of several years as his owner was quite willing. He had already bought another mule
and a wagon in order to haul their cotton to better advantage. So this team, with
the Negro to drive would be loaded with most necessary supplies for his trip to
Talbot. Burks plan was to get off during the Christmas holidays but a heavy snow
and sleet came making the roads impassible. It was the latter part of January before
they could make the trip, and then it took four days to get to his Uncle Jimmie
s. His uncle had written Burks to stop with him until final arrangements were made.
Burks was glad to do this and here he landed on the last day of January.
The next day he went to see Frances and they decided
to get married on February 4. John Lloyd had given them a hundred acres of land
just a mile from his house. A small part of this had been cleared and a log cabin
had been built. Burks was surprised and overwhelmed at this magnificence, thinking
that he would probably have to rent the first year. John Lloyd also said he would
be glad to have them live there with him and his wife for a few months until Burks
had time to provide better living conditions. It was all so agreeably offered and
Burks saw the hard common sense in the plan so he accepted gratefully. All was going
well even though it continued bitterly cold. He and his Negro moved the wagon and
mules to their new place, put the corn and other feed in the cabin, made a comfortable
place for the Negro, and improvised shelter for the mules. It was all finished the
next day and Burks stopped by to see Frances, telling her all was ready for the
fourth, and went on to his uncle s for the night.
The next day February 4, 1830, was very cold through
the sun was shining. Becky and Daniel came early to join the others at Uncle Jimmie
s. John and William went in the wagon with Becky and Daniel. Burks rode with Uncle
Jimmie, Aunt Patsy and the little girls in the rockaway with old Shad driving two
sleck bay horses. Sol rode Burks horse. It was a real sorrow to Burks that his mother
and other members of his family could not be with them, but it was hardly possible
for them to come such a long distance in this bitter cold weather. The party had
eaten a lunch before starting at 11 o clock, for the roads were still quite bad
and they knew there would be hindrances on the way. The ceremony was set for 3 o
clock at the Lloyd home and was to be followed by an infare.
The party arrived about two o clock though many
guests were already there. Great log fires were burning in all the rooms which made
a cheering picture even though it was so cold outside. Burks and Frances looked
their best which was saying a great deal for they made a striking couple as they
entered the door. All was silence. James Burks came forward with his Bible in his
hand for he was to perform the ceremony. Mrs. Lloyd looked around to see that all
were there and missed her son William. He s gone for his girl, Hannah Combs, and
naturally he would be late , whispered Sarah, answering her mother s look. The ceremony
went on and Burks and Frances were made man and wife.
All was stir and bustle now as the family and friends
gathered around the young couple offering congratulations, etc. Just at that moment
William, hand in hand with Hannah, entered the room. Say, people, he exclaimed,
We aren't going to let these two carry off all the good wishes. Save some for us.
Hannah and I were married two hours ago and have come in for our share of everything
including the food . That was indeed a surprise but all joined in to wish them all
the good luck and happiness that was to be had. After awhile everyone repaired to
the dining room out in the yard where they found the table groaning with good things
to eat. The center piece was a large five story cake embossed with
icing in many shapes and colors. The silver and china ere handsome and altogether
made a beautiful decoration.
On entering the house again, the guests began to
gather up their wraps and leave for home for the evening was far spent. The upstairs
room to the right which had been the girls room was now prepared for Frances and
Burks bridal chamber. William had tipped off the maids to have the opposite room
prepared for him and Sarah. All was soon still for the night but before retiring
Burks and Frances knelt by the bedside and offered prayers to God for His guidance
and protection throughout their lives. Right there, Burks pledged that this was
the beginning of family prayers for as long as they might live, and that pledge
was never broken.
Burks appreciated to the fullest all that his father-in-law
was doing for him and Frances but he was not a man to sit by and let it continue.
So he began to plan and make arrangements for their own home. Already he had secured
and paid for flooring, ceiling, and other material for his house. Also, the sills
were hewn. As soon as he was sure his marriage, he knew he would settle some place
in Talbot County. So the previous year while working for Mr. Bryan he had let his
last two months salary go in lumber for his house. Before leaving there he had made
a shed and saw that the material he would need dressed was stacked carefully under
this shed for drying. Now he hired some extra help and begun at once to build. As
the trees for the logs were right on the spot he decided it would be best and cheapest
to have a double log cabin and ceil it on the inside. For the present the loft above
would be unfinished. His neighbors gave him a log rolling and a house raising at
the proper time and this speeded up the job quite a bit.
After supper, when the weather was pleasant, he
and Frances would ride up to Mr. Bryan s and Burks would spend two or three hours
each night dressing lumber while Frances held the light for him. In that way, by
the time March came they had one big room finished and a shed at the back for a
kitchen for as their servants wouldn't be plentiful to start, it would be so much
more convenient for Frances with which to start at any rate.
Burks was anxious to get moved in as early as possible
on account of being near his farm, as well as for other reasons, so he and Frances
moved in the fourth of March just one month from their wedding day. They were indeed
happy to be in their own home and begin their married life with just each other.
They soon had themselves adjusted. Frances made an excellent housekeeper and cook,
and Burks and Dave were busy planting the crop. The hired Negroes had broken up
the land while Burks was so busy with the house. They had only twenty acres ready
for farming but Burks knew with this small amount they could keep it well cultivated
and clear more at odd times. So the time passed rapidly and soon they had been married
a year. It had indeed been a happy and prosperous one for the young couple.
During the winter of 1830-31, Burks had much business away from home. He cut the big screws of hard wood used at that time in packing bales of cotton. This was a careful painstaking job and as all big planters must have these screws, Burks was busy getting them in readiness. This necessitated his being away from home much of the time and as he didn't like to leave Frances alone he must find some one to stay with her. He was talking this over with Mr. Holmes for whom he was working at the time. I tell you, Burks, old Jim Witten has a good strong Negro wench about thirty years old that he bought in Savannah before moving here. This Negro is pure African and was brought to the seaport by one of those illegal salve traders who sold her to Whitten at a big price. Witten is awfully sore over the trade for the wench is barren and now he s offering her at a cheap price. Burks went at once to see Whitten who was a man of rather questionable character but knew how to make plenty of money. Yes, I'll let you have the wench for $250. She s a good enough worker but I bought her to raise a big family and not a child has she had.
Burks could see that Witten hadn't been very kind
to the poor creature though she was a docile, even-tempered slave. He felt sure
he could trust her with Frances so paid for the woman on the spot and took her home.
Betty, as she was called, was most grateful to Burks and Frances for taking her
from Witten and she was their most devoted slave to the end of her life. Her English
was very broken and at times Frances couldn't understand what she was talking about.
A partition was made in the kitchen for her room so that she might be near her mistress,
at any time she might need her. Betty was truly a big help, very tractable, and
learned a great deal from Frances.
February was almost gone when Burks came in one
day saying that his outside work was finished and now he must help Dave in planting
the crop. At odd times he had managed to get the opposite big room finished for
while there were two beds in their room, they knew it was necessary to prepare this
extra space. In April Francs was expecting her baby and all must be ready for that
great event. Her mother had given her several pieces of furniture, a feather bed
and some quilts, etc. Frances had also been busy seeing that the baby s wardrobe
was complete. Her mother helped a great deal in that respect too for she enjoyed
coming over to spend the day with her daughter. Sarah was already married to McPherson
and was far away so Mrs. Lloyd was very lonely at home without either of her girls.
It was now April 9, and all was excitement at the
Kendrick home. A little son had just been born and was called Robert Sheldrick for
Burks father and brother. You may be sure all were delighted and Frances and Burks
joy knew no bounds. That night, after the others had left the room, Burks knelt
down by the bad, with his arms outstretched around his wife and little son, and
gave thanks to God and asked for wisdom for them both that they might bring up their
boy in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.
Betty felt it was the greatest privilege to do
something for little Robert. From the very first she was indeed his devoted slave.
The baby naturally thrived with such care and devotion. He grew rapidly until he
was six or seven months old and suddenly he was very sick. Burks went for Frances
mother and she at once saw the trouble. Frances was pregnant and must wean the baby
at once. Burks always had plenty of good milk cows so the milk of the cow was substituted.
In the latter part of July 1832, a second son was born. This baby was named John
Lloyd for Frances father. He, also, was a big fine baby and his parents were just
as proud of him as of the older son. His grandfather Lloyd thought the boy the finest
ever and bragged about what he would do for this baby when he grew older. The old
man was never to keep his promise, however, for he died the following January. The
estate was wound up though naturally the mother was left with the home place and
plenty of Negroes. All the children were married except her youngest son, Marcus,
so the two continued to make their home together.
After the Lloyd estate was settled, Burks was quite anxious to enlarge his holdings. Burks was well pleased with the 100 acres that had been left Frances but now that his family was growing there was no way to obtain more land adjoining him and as Ben had made him a good offer he decided to sell out. Besides as a good place near Pleasant Hill already settled was offered at a reasonable price, he thought the exchange would be a good one. He gathered his 1833 crop, sold his place to Ben Lloyd, bought the Pleasant Hill Place and moved in before Christmas. This was a much larger farm so he rented another Negro, Sol, and put him and Dave at work breaking up the land. Burks still did a good deal of work for the public so this necessitated his being away from home much of the time.
In the meantime, his mother had decided to break up her home as Sallie had married Chris Bims and Sheldrick was almost of age and wanted to start out for himself. Nancy sold out everything, divided it among the children and came to live with Burks during the winter. Sheldrick also came and found work clearing up new ground for Chappel Cox one of the prominent men of Talbot Valley. Nancy learned to love Frances at once and was a lot of help with the two babies. Old Betty was foolishly fond of both children but Nancy soon showed her that she need have no fear. Nancy approved old Betty s devotion and saw that Frances had a real treasure in the slave.
Sallie and Christopher now bought a new place near Becky s so when spring came the two girls insisted that their mother come and live with them. Nancy did this though she often made long visits to Burks. She had come back to visit him during the winter of 1834 when the first little girl arrived. She was christened Nancy Jane and of course she was a natural favorite, with Nancy from the beginning. Burks could see that his mother was growing feeble now so nothing pleased her more than to sit in the corner and rock little Nancy. Betty kept the boys in the kitchen for they were big enough to make a lot of noise and Frances did not wish them to disturb their grandmother.
It was two years later, November 11, 1836, that the second little girl came. Her name was Elizabeth Frances, for her grandmother Lloyd and her mother. Burks and Frances were very happy over their growing family though their cares and responsibilities had also rapidly increased. Burks found this land not so good and productive as he had been accustomed to, it was a bad corn year, and the price of cotton had descended several cents a pound. The place was paid for but he hardly made ends meet when his crop was gathered. Sheldrick had married and was almost the first to go. Ben and several of his brothers were trying to sell their holdings and move out. Burks was not financially able to make a change but he thought it a wonderful opportunity to buy some of Ben s land - - considered the best in the Valley. Ben knew that Burks was responsible though he didn't have the money, so he urged the trade. Burks decided to take two lots in the southern part of the plantation. He had the good luck to sell the Pleasant Hill place for cash and the use of it for the year 1837. So he paid Ben $1000 cash with notes for the balance. This left Burks something to operate on, and the opportunity to make a crop on both places, though buildings had to be started from the beginning.
This necessitated more labor and stock so two Negroes were rented, two mules were bought, and his enterprise was begun. Besides the farm work, Burks must procure lumber for his house and have it drying. The sills were to be hewn, but all other timbers were to be sawed. The chimneys and foundations were to be made of rock. Burks told his wife he was not going to rush on this house but build it to suit him from the first, and hoped they would be able to live there the remainder of their days. He hired carpenters - - for all his time was taken in superintending. The house was a story and a half shedded to the front for a porch and to the back for two rooms and an entry. It had two front doors but no hall. The door to the left led to the family room and directly in front of that door about four feet distant was the stairway door. The door at the right entrance led to the guest room. This room was also connected with the family room by a door at the left of the entrance. Both these rooms had doors leading to the back entry. The left hand shed room opened into the family room and the back entry. The right hand shed room also opened into the back entry. Upstairs were two large bedrooms. The kitchen and dining room stood in the back yard about forty feet to the left. All the lumber was selected with care and was heart pine. The shingles were rived and of the best material which would last thirty or forty years. A great barn and other out-buildings had been provided for sheltering their stock and storing their harvest.
It was in the late November before all was in readiness for moving. The crops in both places were unusually good and that was indeed fortunate for with the great expense of buying and building Burks was still considerably behind with his finances. But with careful management and another good crop he hoped to be out of debt by the end of the next year. It was with a glad and thankful heart that the family moved in. The little boys, Robert and John, were now six and five, respectively, and just the age to be taking interest in everything. They must ride back and forth with every load. There was really more room in the house than they needed but Burks was building for the future. He and Frances occupied the family room, with the two little girls sleeping on the trundle bed, and the boys had the adjoining shed room. Betty stayed in the other shed room across the entry. The front room to the right was furnished for guests.
All this time Burks was very active in church work
and community improvement. It was a great joy to the whole Valley when an Academy
had been granted to them. It was located on the old Lloyd land on the public road
and was most convenient to the majority of the people. The neighbors joined heartily
in the building and you may be sure Burks did his share and more. The great
love he had for learning made him resolve that the best possible advantages should
be given their children. He would have two children ready when the school opened
the next summer. Evans Chapel, the Methodist church of the Valley, was being built
near the school and Burks took just as much interest and helped in the building
as if he had been one of the members.
The coming of the churches and schools made this
community one of the most cultured and progressive of its time. The excellent oak
and hickory red lands were most productive, the prices were higher than other sections
of the county. The people realized this and increased their holdings where they
could. In fact, it was hard to buy land in the neighborhood during this time. Burks
never had the property that many of his neighbors possessed but he was always a
leading man in his section and was highly admired and esteemed by rich and poor.
When the fall of 1838 came another little girl
was added to the family whom they named Ann. Burks sisters, Becky and Sallie came
up to bring their mother to spend some time with their brother and see the new baby.
Each contended that little Ann should be named for them so Frances said, We'll call
our baby Sarah Ann Rebecca and please both of you. Nancy occupied
the guest room and was most comfortable for she could have big cheery fires in her
room or join the family - - as she wished.
Burks and Frances were very happy in their new
home and they each felt that it must be as attractive as possible in every way.
Each of them was fond of nature - - trees, flowers, shrubs, in fact, all growing
things. There were shade trees in abundance but flowering shrubs must be set and
flower seeds planted. A large garden of one acre was enclosed and planted. Seeds
were also planted for fruits such as apples, pears, peaches, plums, cherries. There
were arbors for grapes, muscadines, and scuppernongs. Watermelons, muskmelons, and
cantaloupes were planted in season, so there was no time of the year that fruit
was not abundant for the surplus was always preserved. The woods afforded
hickory
nuts, walnuts, and chestnuts, besides millions of acorns for the hogs. Game was
still plentiful and much delicious meat was furnished the table. It was indeed a
land of plenty for all who had the energy to take advantage of their opportunities.
The years were gliding by in much the same manner
until April, 1847 had arrive. In the meantime the family continued to grow until
four more little sons were added to the household. Christopher came in December
of 1840; Thomas, in February 1843; Joseph, in May 1845; and the last, Benjamin,
arrived in April 1847. All these children made the cares and burdens of the parents
greater but each new baby was welcomed happily for Burks and Frances felt it was
their mission in life to care for and nurture the little ones God had given them,
and they prayed for no greater happiness. The perplexities and worries that naturally
arose in providing the wants of the family were as nothing compared to the joys
they were reaping in this beautiful family life.
Immediately
after Benjamin s birth Frances strength seemed to be gone and the doctor s face
as he left the room looked very grave. Burks went in and knelt by her side. It was
a pitiable wan smile that greeted him. Frances mustered her remaining strength for
these words: I m leaving you, my precious, but I know you will do the very best
for our helpless little children. I wish I could help you more. All later words
were lost for she could give no further utterance. her stricken husband remained
by the bedside as the family and friends gathered around. The doctor bent over Frances
and watched her last breathing. Soon it was over and the fair young mother, thirty-six
years of age was gone. Such a faithful helpful loving wife - - such an untiring
patient devoted mother.
Only the older
children could realize at all what it meant. The little ones gathered around and
wept because they saw the others weeping. Burks was stunned - - it was all so sudden
- - it must not be true. But as his faculties returned he begun to grasp what this
meant - - the severing of the strongest, sweetest tie he had ever known - - the
utter helplessness and nine little children with no mother and blinding groping
uncertainty of what was best to do. He poured out his heart in prayer to God, as
never before, to be with him and his in this, the darkest hour of his life. Burks
rose from his knees and his old mother clasped him in her arms, I ll stand by you
to the last, my boy, never fear, God will pull us through. His mother-in-law also
offered to do anything she could. Burks knew this was almost a death blow to her
for Sarah and her boys had all moved far away and now the last cord was broken that
bound the once big family. Neighbors, so good and kind, promised help and comfort.
Ah! God was near by after all and would always care for his own through the goodness
and tenderness he was planting in the hearts of his people.
Burks left
the house and went out to the kitchen. Here he found old Betty with Joseph in her
lap and the old Negro said, Massa, me tek care dese chillun. Missus always good
to old Betty. Me love your chillun. Then she broke down and wept. It was Burks who
comforted her and told her he knew she would do her best. He walked around in the
yard for awhile. Here his cousin Jimmie Kendrick, who had come from his home in
Meriwether Co. joined Burks. James Cornelius Kendrick had been pastor at Valley
Grove for several years and had visited at Burks home frequently. The two men were
quite fond of each other for they were very congenial in many ways - - besides there
was the extra tie of kinship. It was a great comfort to Burks to have a talk with
his cousin Jimmie for he had a broad understanding heart although he had never been
through such an experience as this. I have a message for you, Burks, Sister Dixon
lost her baby a few days ago and she sent word by me that she wanted to take care
of and nurse little Benjamin just as if he were her own. There is nothing binding
about this - - it all comes from her kind motherly heart that goes out to your motherless
baby. Burks was much touched by this for he knew his mother was entirely too feeble
to undertake the responsibility and Betty did not have the judgment. Burks told
his cousin he would have to think and pray over the matter but it was a grand noble
woman who made such an offer.
The funeral
was held from the house and friends, relatives, and neighbors gathered for miles
around to pay their respects to the beloved dead. A lot was selected near John Lloyd
s in Concord Cemetery and the body of Frances was laid to rest. It was indeed a
sad, sad family that returned to their home that night. The Rev. James spent the
night with them as he felt that Burks needed him. The two slept in the guest room
that night and talked until late. Burks had prayerfully pondered the kind offer
of Mrs. Dixon and he told Cousin Jimmie he had decided to accept it. She told me
if you would let the baby come Mary and I could bring it, said James. But I want
to go on there with you and have a talk with Mrs. Dixon and show her my appreciation
for such wonderful friendship, Burks replied. I knew you d want to do that, Burks,
and there s plenty of room in the carriage for you and the baby.
So the party
set off the next morning, James, his wife Mary, Burks and little Benjamin. A Negro
drove and Robert followed behind in the gig for his father to have a way to ride
home. It was almost noon when they reached the Dixon home but they were rather expecting
them. Burks knew Mrs. Dixon well and had no fears for the welfare of his baby son,
but being separated from him was what troubled Burks most. Mrs. Dixon took the baby
to her heart at once and Burks felt that in her hands was the best place for the
infant. All were soon invited in to dinner and a little while later all left for
their homes. It was night when Burks and Robert reached home. John came running
out to help with the horse, and exclaimed, What do you think happened today, Pa?
Mr. Holt sent over fifteen hoe hands and they cleaned out the spring field cotton
and three of his plow hands almost finished plowing the corn in the Lloyd field..
Burks was deeply grateful and realized that when the neighbors said they d help,
it was meant with good will and sincerity. The three little boys were already in
the trundle bed fast asleep. There were two beds in the shed room adjoining and
it was now occupied by the girls and their grandmother. Robert and John slept upstairs.
Burks crept into his bed thankful that though trouble overshadowed him there was
so much kindness shining through.
NEED OF A
MOTHER S HAND
Burks children
were, on the whole, as good as could be found anywhere, but as with all others,
they needed a steadying, sympathetic, loving hand to guide them at all times. Since
the mother was gone the father tried to be with his little flock as much as possible
for he realized that his mother was too old and feeble and old Betty was too lenient
and yielding to manage the children wisely. Robert was a fine reliable boy and frequently
Burks had to put him in charge when he was called away on business. John was just
as fine as Robert in many ways but his temper too often ruled him. Nancy, also,
was lots of help and took many cares from her grandmother s shoulders. Betty and
Sallie were mere children and naturally could not feel much responsibility. Chris
was barely seven but was already showing a remarkable aptitude for books and never
tired of study. Thomas was a sturdy little fellow and quite dependable for his years.
Joseph was the baby at home and still spoiled and treated as one.
Each child
had his own tasks as Burks believed that they should learn early to be useful. Robert
and John, when not in school, were very helpful in the field. Nancy and Betty were
learning to spin, knit, and sew. John was very quick motioned and when he and Robert
were given like tasks he almost always finished first and came to the house. Possibly
Robert was more painstaking and thorough. John liked to stay with his sisters and
often helped them at their tasks but Robert was like his father in that, and was
so conscientious that he felt it an injustice to the girls for them not to depend
on their own efforts. Anyway, the girls were glad of John s help - - especially
Betty. Betty was by far the largest of the girls and had developed very fast since
her mother s death. Before she was eleven her menses had come on and the poor little
thing didn't know what it meant. She had heard of girls being disgraced and so she
thought that had happened to her. But that wasn't her greatest fright - - she thought
she was going to die. Grandmother had gone over to grandmother Lloyd s so the child
thought best to go to bed. Nancy came in, What in the world ails you? Just now you
were running and playing with the little boys and now you are lying up in bed. I
bet you want to get out of some of your work. Betty wouldn't give her sister any
satisfaction. Pa came in and asked Betty if she were sick or if anything hurt. She
burst into tears and said, I believe I m going to die but that s all the satisfaction
he could get from Betty. He told old Betty to prepare her some food and take it
in as the child said may be she could eat something. When old Betty went in she
set the food on a chair, beat up her pillows and told her precious lamb
to raise herself up and eat. The tempting meal made Betty forget her troubles
and as she moved nearer the bed s edge old Betty saw the cause of the child s fright.
My poor baby, old Betty should ha told it.
Grandmother
had now come and she sat beside the child and comforted her as she made the mystery
clear. She also told Nancy so that she would not have to go through the same fright.
Robert always
thought that whatever pappy said was law and must be carried out but John
was not quite so obedient and was, at times, very self willed. He was a sweet affectionate
boy and could be led but not driven. He had the utmost confidence in Brother
Robert, as all the children called him, but he didn't like to take orders
from him even though he knew they were his father s orders. He not only rebelled
himself but stirred rebellion among their sisters against Robert and then took his
sisters part. Frequently when Burks returned home after some enforced absence he
would have to correct John for some disobedience. This would make John stubborn
and sullen and at time Burks would lose all patience and give him worse punishment
than he had intended. Afterwards his mother would put her arms on his shoulders
and say, Go slowly, Burks. Remember your own temper when you were John s age and
try to find some other way of making John obey or you will cause the boy to make
worse trouble. Burks knew his mother was right and he tried to be more patient for
he knew that John was a fine boy and could make an excellent man if he could get
his son on the right path. He thought of Frances and of how obedient and thoughtful
John was to her. Then in agony of regret he promised himself that he would indeed
be more patient and tender with this son.
A year had
now passed - - a very trying sorrowful year for Burks - - since Frances death. He
could see that his mother was failing rapidly and he knew that the children worried
and fretted her so he decided to take her to Sallie s who had no children and let
her have more rest and quietude. He left on Saturday afternoon taking John and Betty
with him and his mother, letting John do the driving. (Burks was managing to need
John on his trips and Nancy, seeing the wisdom of this, commended his diplomacy.)
They spent the night with Sallie, left Nancy comfortably domiciled and went by to
spend Sunday with Becky. Daniel s sisters, Nancy and Ann, were also spending the
day. Both seemed very fine women. The thought had come to Burks before this that
it might be best for himself and the children if he could find someone to take their
mother s place. Take their mother s place? No, this was impossible and he couldn't bear for the thought to linger. Still as he went on home that afternoon the thought
did persist.
On reaching
home he found the children cheerful and happy. Robert had looked after everything
about the barn and come forward to help John unhitch. On entering the house he noticed
how clean and tidy Nancy and Sallie had made things look. The little boys had on
fresh suits and everything seemed the most comfortable since Frances passing. Maybe
this is what the children need he thought, I'll let them manage for themselves for
awhile and see how it works out. I must go slowly in all this and make no mistake.
THE NEW MOTHER
The year was
over now for the time that Mrs. Dixon had taken little Benjamin so the next day
Burks took John and Betty with him to bring the baby home. Mrs. Dixon would have
loved to have kept the boy longer for she had become much attached to him but her
health was so bad she could give the child but little attention though the little
fellow was strong and healthy for a year old. He had been weaned and was now eating
many things. It brought tears to Burks eyes to see that his own baby didn't know
him and held out his little arms for his foster mother. Betty soon coaxed Bennie,
as the children called him, to come to her. So in a little while they left for home.
The children were wild with delight when the others returned with Bennie.
Bettie took
the child as her special care. His cradle was moved by her bed, no one else could
rock him to sleep so well; she must feed him and, in fact, look after all his personal
wants. Bennie got on just fine until mid-summer came and then he had an upset digestive
attack. They did everything in their power and so did the doctor but his trouble
got worse and the little fellow wore away to a shadow of his former self. The good
neighbors helped - - especially Mrs. Holt who lived nearest. She told Burks she
believed if the baby could be under her continued supervision she could make him
well. The father and the other children could hardly bear the thought of Bennie
leaving home again but maybe the child s life depended on it so they agreed to Mrs.
Holt s kind offer. It wasn't so bad as before for some of the family could go to
see him every day. Most of the time it was Betty for she would cut through the field
and her fat legs and body would wobble as she went but she never complained. After
awhile Bennie did improve but Mrs. Holt insisted on keeping him through the winter.
Every one
at home seemed to be getting on fine, the girls and old Betty were doing all the
house work and cooking and the older boys were helpful in the farm. The crop was
excellent, the price of cotton was good so when Christmas of 1848 came Burks had
all his debts paid, plenty to run on, and money in the bank. He had long wanted
a rockaway, as it was so much easier riding, and more of the family could go together
to places. Roads were terrible bad during the winter so he decided to wait until
spring to make his purchase.
In the meantime
Burks mother had died and so he had made several trips to Sallie's and Becky's.
Every time it happened that Ann Trussell was at one house or the other so he was
frequently thrown in her company. Each time they met Burks liked her better so he
decided that Ann would make him an excellent wife and a good mother for the children.
They became engaged and set the wedding day for the first of March. Burks not only
bought the rockaway but a new horse to match the one he had. This put him in debt
for the horse as he wished to save enough for running expenses but he felt sure
he could clear more than that during the year.
On his wedding
day Burks and the three girls rode in the new rockaway, old Dave driving - - the
horses dressed in their bright harness - - and Robert and John driving the gig.
The wedding was held at Becky s and after dinner the party returned home. Tommie
and Jodie had been told that pa was bringing home a mother for them, so they very
joyfully greeted pa and Ann. When Tommie found it was not his real mother he went
in the next room and wept bitterly. It was some time before he could be coaxed to
come back. Bennie had been brought from Mrs. Holt s so Ann must have had a brave
heart to have undertaken this great responsibility. She tried her best and was tactful
and kind and all the children loved and obeyed her. There was one exception, however,
and that was John. At first he seemed all right but Burks soon felt that the boy
resented his bringing Ann there to take his own dead mother s place. Ann tried to
win John over as she did Robert and the others but not succeeding she thought it
best not to notice John s lack of cooperation. Burks, also, said nothing to the
boy for really John never failed to obey and Burks thought his son would finally
feel differently.
There was
another who resented the second wife and, naturally, it was Frances mother. In fact
the old lady was so angry at Burks she wouldn't speak to him. This hurt him for
he had always been most kind and considerate to mother Lloyd. One day the old lady
was sick. Ann told Burks about it when he came to the house and said they should
go to see Mrs. Lloyd. Burks replied, I ll saddle a horse and you may go to see her
but not I. Ann replied, But we must both go. Don t you see that the whim of an old
lady shouldn't keep us from doing our duty? Burks saw that his wife was right so
he had the two horses saddled and both rode over to see her. The lonely old soul
was really glad to see them both and told them to come see her often. Mrs. Lloyd
did not live long after that. Her last days were sad and lonely and Burks and Ann
did all they could to cheer her up.
Burks believed
John was becoming more reconciled to his stepmother then all of a sudden he lost
his temper and behaved in a very ugly manner. His father was so provoked with him
for this unseemly outburst that he gave the boy a severe whipping. John was then
eighteen and resented his father s chastisement so he ran away from home and went
to his uncle John Lloyd's, near Columbus. His uncle sensed that something was wrong
and by asking pointed questions John confessed the whole story. His uncle talked
to the boy very seriously and kindly but told him he was taking the wrong attitude.
Now, son, I am not going to force you if I could, but the right thing for you to
do is to go home like a man and beg pardon for the way you acted. Your conduct has
grieved your father more than you know but I believe he will be very forgiving if
you show a repentant attitude. If you feel that you can go in the right spirit I'll go with you for I would be mighty glad to see my sister s family again.
When his Uncle
John mentioned his mother s name the boy broke down and wept and told him uncle
he was ready to go back home. Burks, too, felt terribly bad about whipping John
and knew he had not acted wisely. So when the boy returned he received him very
kindly and John told his father he would never act in that manner again. However,
John was soon getting restless and dissatisfied at home. He had an adventurous spirit
and wanted to get out in the world. He went frankly to his father and told him just
how he felt and asked permission to go away. Burks remembered how wisely his mother
had acted in his own adventures so he readily gave his consent. He and John had
a long man to man talk and in the end each loved and respected the other as never
before. John told his father that he would stay until the crop was gathered as Burks
was scarce of hands.
Five of the
children were in school now, old Betty was not so strong, so Burks bought a strong
Negro girl to help in the house and also do field work when necessary. This girl
was fifteen and named Lucinda or Lou for short. She was very capable and soon married
to one of the Holt Negroes that Burks rented. A cabin was built for them, also old
Betty had room there for all the big house was needed for the family and their friends
and relatives.
MANY CHANGES
Ann was a
capable manager and got a lot of work done at home by the children and the servants.
She kept every thing neat and clean and orderly. She loved company and going places
so the home was much gayer than it had ever been. She had lots of relatives and
some of them were constantly staying with her especially her sister, Aunt Nancy,
as every one called her, - - she spent her entire time - - while not teaching -
- at Burks house. The back bed room that old Betty had occupied was dressed up,
new furniture bought and Aunt Nancy was comfortably ensconced therein. New silver,
china, linen, etc, had to be bought; more conveniences installed, more money spent.
Ann was quite thrifty about preserving all the surplus fruits and vegetables for
winter use. She saw that the children were kept neat and clean. She was very proud
of her husband and encouraged him in taking part in all public affairs - - and
she had to go with him. Valley Grove Church now belonged to the Columbus
Association so she and Burks must attend all these meetings no matter how distant.
They also took equal interest in the Methodist gatherings - - big dinners were always
fixed for the quarterly meetings. Camp meetings were held every year and the Kendricks
always had a camp and stayed throughout the session. Preachers, other prominent
men and their families always found a welcome at Brother Kendrick s.
The children,
now that John was gone, thought it was perfectly all right and really enjoyed the
festivities. . . Burks, being away from home so much, turned over the management
of the farm almost entirely to Robert. He was grown up and most capable and reliable
and always tried to carry out his father s directions to the letter. He was always
kind, thoughtful, and respectful towards his stepmother and this had great influence
with the younger children for they thought what Brother Robert said
and did was just right.
Sadness entered
the family group again. It was now 1854. Little Joseph, nine years old, an active
lovable little fellow and full of fun and laughter was a favorite with all the family.
He was very athletic and always doing some sort of stunts. One day he had been specially
active and that night Tommie, who was sleeping with him, heard a gurgling moaning
sound. He raised up and by the moonlight he saw Jodie lying in a pool of blood.
He awakened Brother Robert, who was sleeping in the same room, and called his father.
A messenger was dispatched for a doctor and all hands were working desperately to
stop the flow of blood but to no avail. The little boy passed away at dawn - - just
after the doctor arrived. It was evidently a broken blood vessel caused by overstrain.
The family was grief stricken. Such a joyous happy little fellow to be taken away
so early. The next day the body was laid in Concord Cemetery near that of his beloved
mother.
The next year,
1855, Nancy was now twenty and a very lovely girl of strong character and noble
traits. Her second cousin once removed, William Callaway Kendrick, son of Rev. J.
C. Kendrick, was now studying law in Talbotton. It was quite natural for him to
spend the week-ends at Cousin Burks . Soon he and Nancy fell desperately in love
with each other and were married February 25, 1855. They lived in Talbotton for
awhile until Cal finished his law course and there his son Herschel was born the
next year. The family was very proud of the fine baby and especially as he was the
first grandson.
Soon after
this old Betty passed away. She had been quite feeble for several years. Ann and
the girls took excellent care of the faithful old slave, seeing that she was made
comfortable in every way during her last illness. Ann or one of the girls would
watch over her at night whenever it was needed. Lou was also kind and patient with
the old negress. Each member of the family had counted it a great personal loss
for she had been a willing helpful servant to Burks and both wives - - especially
Frances. She had nursed all the children and they loved her like a mother - - indeed
she had been a mother to them during their greatest need and was always most devoted
to Massa's chillun.
Frequent letters
came from John and they were always affectionate and tender towards every member
of the family. He was working on a boat that ran on the Red River in Arkansas and
Louisiana. He seemed well pleased out west and had not thought of returning home.
Burks was
making money on the farm but his expenses were so great that he could never get
ahead. He had always wanted to give his children a college education but when the
time came the money was never available. Of course the family was large and naturally
cost more but the going and entertaining was also expensive. Burks seemed to be
needed for so many outside affairs and his friends and neighbors looked to him as
a leader in most community activities. His opinions were sought by rich and poor
and he never refused to do a neighborly kindness.
In the fall
of 1859, two more of his children were married. On September 22, Sallie was married
to Joseph Williams whose father was one of the first settlers of the county. The
home was three miles sought of Talbotton and here Joseph and Sallie set up housekeeping.
Sallie was a pretty girl and much beloved. Her family would miss her but she was
not too far away to visit frequently. Just two weeks later Robert was married to
Mary Brooks. She had come from North Carolina to make her home with her sister,
Mrs. James Smith, who lived in the Valley Grove section. The family felt they would
be ruined if Brother Robert left but the father said it was time the younger boys,
Chris and Tommie, were taking more responsibility. Bennie was yet a little fellow,
though twelve, and every one still considered him a baby for he was rather delicate.
Robert had bought property in the northwestern section of the Valley not so far
from Chalybeate Springs and about four miles from his father s home.
TROUBLOUS
TIMES
The year 1860
had now arrived with talk of Civil War on every side. The common opinion was that
if Lincoln were elected president, the sought would secede. Burks believed in going
slowly on all such grave questions and would have been glad if Georgia could have
stayed in the Union but that desire was futile. Of course thirteen of the southern
states did secede and that brought untold sorrow and distress to every section and
every home. Burks health was considerably impaired at that time and as he was already
fifty-four he did not go to war himself. John, who was then in Texas, wrote his
father of his joining the army and was never heard of more. Chris, the studious
thoughtful lad who gave such promise of becoming a great man, was the next to go.
Tommie, who had promised his father to gather the crop before he left, was sorely
afraid it would all be over before he could get there. He joined in the fall. Robert
also joined though he left a wife, a little daughter, and expectations of another
child. Joe Williams brought his wife and daughter to Burks home and joined. Cal
brought his wife and son to Burks and joined. The third year of the war Benjamin
enlisted. Five sons and two sons-in-law gone and Burks, a broken old man, left with
all this burden. Word came that Chris was killed at Gettysburg. Mary had a letter
that Robert got a leave of absence and was coming home. He didn't arrive so he was
believed dead. Sallie got word that her husband was at death s door in a hospital
in Savannah. She went there to nurse him. Tommie was also taken quite ill so she
stayed on to nurse him. Sallie finally reached home again reporting the terrible
conditions that existed. Finally 1865 came and stragglers from Sherman s army did
all they could to devastate Talbot County as well as all other sections they passed
through. Just at the last it was reported that Tommie and Bennie were captured and
taken to Newport News. Joe came home first, broken in health. About the middle of
June Robert returned haggard from having walked all the way from Virginia. Bennie
came in a few days later and so did Cal. Bennie had heard that Tommie was dead and
a few days later a neighbor comrade confirmed the report. All were weeping when
Tommie walked in. Their sadness was suddenly turned to joy and a great celebration
was held.
It was now
late summer. Crops were just fair but they would have food to eat. Burks wanted
his boys to go on back to school but Tommie said, No, pa, I've been away and now
that I m home I'll go right to work. Bennie went to school and so did Bettie as
she, too, had been unable to go earlier. Miss Levicie Maddox was teaching at the
Academy. Though just a young girl she was already considered quite a good teacher.
Being his Cousin Jimmie Kendrick s great niece, Burks knew the family quite well.
Her father, Thomas Maddox, a Methodist preacher, frequently supplied the pulpit
at Evans Chapel. In fact, Levicie had frequently visited his home, so Burks thought
there was no finer girl anywhere. Chris had corresponded with Levicie up until the
time of his death in 1863.
Burks as was
required of every one who had slaves had told his Negroes they were free. There
were a Negro man and Lucinda, and her four children all small. Burks told them they
might still remain on the place and work for him or go elsewhere. All of them stayed
on. Burks told Tommie, as he had told Robert, Now that you are of age, if you wish
to remain at home I will give you your share of everything you grow. So the beginning
of 66 found Tommie busily engaged in farming, trying to restore something of what
had been lost. Reconstruction troubles didn't effect the Valley as heavily as some
other sections but it was bad enough. That year the price of cotton was high but
a tremendous tax had to be paid on it. Burks had carried such heavy burdens not
only for his own family but several neighbors in great distress had borrowed of
him. Some of the money was paid back but most of it was an entire loss. This involved
him so that he had to put a heavy mortgage on his home. The good crop of 66 helped
some but not enough to pay out.
Tommie worked
hard again the next year again he grew a lot of cotton and food crops. Levicie was
still the Valley teacher. He became much interested in her but she gave him no encouragement
at the time as a Methodist preacher was very much in evidence. The more Tommie saw
of her the more desperately he became in love and the more courageous and bold.
Finally, the preacher was discarded and Tommie and Levicie were married December
15, 1867.
Tommie continued
farming with his father as Bennie wished to attend school another year. The couple
set up housekeeping near by in a little one room log cabin on what was afterwards
known as the Caldwell place. Burks was still growing more feeble though he was able
to look after home affairs and he and Ann continued to attend most of the meetings
in the surrounding territory. Ben was off at school, so Bettie was the only child
left at home. She was a great help and comfort and gave most of her time in doing
for her father. Buggies were much used now for vehicles so the rockaway had been
swapped in for a buggy. Bettie often joined her father and Ann on their trips for
she, too, was very fond of going.
LAST DAYS
The expense
of keeping up the place was still large for hired help had to be secured for almost
everything done about the place. Lucinda was cook and naturally fed her big growing
family from the kitchen. The families of Burks children were for the most part living
at a distance and with his relatives and Ann's the house was usually crowded with
guests. Every one was as welcome as could be, nevertheless it took some money to
pay the bills. At the end of 1868 it was found that the indebtedness grew instead
of lessened so Tommie told his father that he would buy part of his land and help
release the debt on the other. This was some help and Tommie built on the part he
had bought that winter his home being quite near his father.
Bennie had
now finished his course at Collinsworth and came home to farm in the beginning of
1869. He had never taken much responsibility at home so knew very little of managing
a farm. Besides, he was young and gay and spent more time in mixing and mingling
with the young people than he did in farming so his crop was almost an entire failure.
Burks health was much worse and there was little he could do. Tommie had plenty
to manage his own affairs but he was still faithful to do all he could for his father.
Among these
financial worries Burks never seemed to lose his morale. He was just as ready to
assist any in distress, or help anyone that needed it in other ways even lending
money to several. He was still as devoted, or maybe more so, to his church work.
He was often called on to address different civil and religious bodies as his counsel
was still highly valued. He helped in conducting a revival at Evans Chapel. Thomas
Maddox was preaching there at the time and much interest was manifest in the services.
Both Methodists and Baptists were being received as the Baptists could have their
membership recorded at Valley Grove or some other church of like faith. Rev. Maddox
stood in one aisle to receive the Methodists while Burks stood in the other to receive
the Baptists. He still attended his denominational associations having the record
of not missing one in thirty years.
When the year
1873 arrived it found Burks unable to leave home at all though he was not in bed
all the time. He was always a great lover of his fellow man so when he was unable
to go, his friends were glad to come and this cheered Burks. Ann and Bettie were
never too tired to minister to his least want. His absent children were still thoughtful
and affectionate and came often. Nancy, who had now moved to Sumter County, came
and brought Herschel a little cripple since he was two years of age and the only
child. Sallie had four children and she too wanted to do something for pa.
Robert and Mary now had four children and they often came for the day. Tommie was
the nearest and he, his wife, and two children were in and out during the day. Bennie,
who had not yet married, was still at home. So Burks was much cheered with children,
grandchildren, two sisters, other relatives and many friends around him.
It was a lovely
spring day, May 5, when the final summons came. Just four more days and he would
have passed his 66th birthday. That was not such a long life but much
good had been crowded into it. One of his friends who had known Burks since his
first coming to Talbot County said of him, I am not saying this in idle praise or
eulogy, but from the first to last Burks Kendrick has been the most useful man in
our county. There have been others who had more wealth, others who had more education,
but none who had a better kinder heart and proved it by his daily life and contact
with his fellow men. Love thy neighbor as thyself was carried out in word and deed.
The funeral
was held from the home and neighbors and friends saw that every provision possible
was made for the unusually large crowd that had assembled. People, not only of Talbot
County but many surrounding counties came to pay their last respects to their dead
friend. Rev. Rush, a Methodist minister, preached the funeral. Later, he also wrote
the obituary and it was published in the local papers, the Christian Index, and
the Wesleyan Christian Advocate.
It was a sad
concourse of friends and relatives that formed the long procession as it sadly pursued
its way to Concord Church Cemetery. The sun was just setting when the coffin was
lowered to the grave and all that was mortal of Benjamin Burks Kendrick was tenderly
laid to rest by the side of his devoted Frances.
Each Georgia County is divided into Georgia Militia Districts (called GMD's, even now). In the old days there was a sometimes elected, sometimes appointed, Militia Captain (or other rank) with lesser officers under him responsible for raising the eligible men from his district, giving them a few days training each year, and leading them off to fight the Creeks, or whoever, if the Governor so ordered. James Lyon was doubtless one of those officers from his GMD. (Information provided by Walter Cox, resident of Georgia and Robinson historian)
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